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[–] willya@lemmyf.uk 0 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I’m too stubborn for that and would prefer an explanation from whoever did the defederating. Like sopuli.xyz is defederated from mine and the admin doesn’t even reply on matrix about it.

[–] Flaky@iusearchlinux.fyi 15 points 11 months ago (2 children)

tbh this is a general issue with the fediverse. Some instances aren't transparent about who is being blocked and why. It made it a whole lot more difficult for me to figure out what instance I should go for.

[–] Nerd02@lemmy.basedcount.com 10 points 11 months ago (2 children)

PSA: you can use https://defed.xyz to check which instances have blocked an instance (only works with Lemmy ones).

[–] Flaky@iusearchlinux.fyi 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah there's a similar tool for the wider microblogging part of fediverse (Mastodon, Pleroma, Misskey, etc.) but because it was made by an edgelord it gets dismissed. I get the vibe some instances just don't want to share that information, which is important when you're basically dealing with web infrastructure, and get mad when you seek that information out.

[–] Nerd02@lemmy.basedcount.com 10 points 11 months ago

I get the vibe some instances just don’t want to share that information

Oh yeah, big time.
When I posted it to the lemmy admin chatroom, some admins who shall remain nameless commented saying it "gave bad vibes" and that wanting to know such information felt "toxic and gross". Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, of course, but considering the data is already available under the /instances page... well it's just weird that anyone would have a problem with wanting to make it more accessible.

[–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

That doesn’t work at all for me. Search button does nothing.

[–] Nerd02@lemmy.basedcount.com 2 points 11 months ago

Sometimes it happens, yeah. Takes a while or multiple clicks to load. I built that site as a one afternoon project, it's far from perfect.

Another thing you can do is going straight from the URL. For your instance that would be https://defed.xyz/check/lemmy.ca

[–] ech@lemm.ee 4 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Aren't all blocked instances listed in the "Instances" button at the bottom of every Lemmy page? You won't get a detailed explanation, but you can see what you can't see at least.

[–] Flaky@iusearchlinux.fyi 2 points 11 months ago

Yeah the detailed explanation would be very helpful. It's nice that Lemmy has the page at least (and I learned something new today), though that is just Lemmy and the fediverse is much bigger than that. I believe Misskey and Pleroma share it similarly to Lemmy, while Mastodon allows admins to hide it from the public (which, as I said, will act as a barrier to those wanting to sign up)

[–] degen@midwest.social 1 points 11 months ago

It doesn't help with the reasoning, but defed.xyz has been a lot easier to use than scrolling through the /instances endpoints

[–] Thorny_Insight@lemm.ee 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

If they're defederated and your posting from that instance they can't see your posts then.

[–] dandroid@dandroid.app 13 points 11 months ago

They said they are messaging them on Matrix, a separate app.