this post was submitted on 14 Jan 2024
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I only use the browser version of the site which luckily allows me to hide profile pictures. Signatures aren't a thing here anyway. On forums it's a bit different I feel, as having a profile photo/signature is the norm rather than exception so users with those don't really stand out.
I don't mind blocking people for petty reasons. My blocklist has somewhere from 300 to 500 users I'd guess and I add few news ones every day. Same for communities. I got over the FOMO ages ago and though I'm sure I'll miss things I would've liked to see, the truth is I'm going to miss much of it anyway, so it doesn't matter. Especially since I don't even know what I'm missing out on. My reasoning behind this is that the only way to make social media tolerable is by heavily curating it.
I also have word filters for posts about Elon, Twitter, Trump, Sailor Moon etc. All this greatly increases the signal to noise ratio. Sometimes when I see a blocked user comment something I might log out to check what they said and more often than not my conclusion is that nothing of a value was lost.
I always say social media is always better without a "friend" list.
Interesting. I've never thought about it that way but I definitely agree. Even on Instagram I've always treated my friend list more like a list of subcribed users. I don't follow people because I know them; I follow them because I like the content. However since not following people back seems to be frowned upon I'd just much rather spend my time on places where I'm anonymous. I'd never ever tell anyone my reddit/lemmy accounts name.
Leave Sailor Moon out of this!
I'm curious, what happens when you block a user? Do you just not see anything from them anymore? Cause that seems like a super effective way to not get irate at a user you really don't agree with on anything and can't have a civil conversation with.
Correct. You don't see their posts or comments, nor do you see the replies to their comments that make you wonder what you missed. It is more like they were never there, they don't even exist.
This is an absolute win and should be promoted.
Honestly good on you for having a healthy mindset regarding this kind of stuff. I learned to just block people whenever I feel a little too engaged in trying to argue with them. It's better for my mental health to filter what I see anyway