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I subscribe to some pet subs to see cute pictures of cats and dogs to improve my mood and then every tenth post or so is "my poor dead cat". I hate it, I never knew your catdog and now im slightly sad that its dead. Now I have to unsubscribe from all these cute pet subs cause y'all can't not talk about how dead your pets are. Maybe join a support group or something.

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[–] JPJones@lemmy.world 11 points 9 months ago (1 children)

That's not how life works. I don't go around in public telling every random stranger about my dead mom and how much I miss her. That's my burden to bear and would be completely inappropriate. The same goes for cute cat subs and there needs to be a rule preventing it.

[–] Norgur@kbin.social -5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

That's not what's happening here though. A community, however open to subscriptions, is still a closed off, alibeit permiable space. It's like a community center that has a dog room. Everyone can see inside, everyone can be there, but no one is rubbing anything in anyone's faces if you enter and see something you don't like.

[–] JPJones@lemmy.world 6 points 9 months ago

Yes, that is what's happening. This is a public space. There is no permission required to be here anyone can participate. Dropping your dead animal story on a crowd of people trying to brighten up their day is a dick move. That's it that's all. I'm done here. G'night!