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[-] emptiestplace@lemmy.ml 9 points 5 months ago

Are you disregarding your partner's needs here?

[-] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 4 points 5 months ago

One would hope that you'd solve issues like that before getting married. Whether that means an open marriage, having a partner who's also ace, finding ways to fulfill your partners needs without having sex yourself, etc.

You're not wrong, but I think most married couples that involve someone who's ace would have that problem solved by the time they get to marriage.

[-] emptiestplace@lemmy.ml 1 points 5 months ago

Yeah.

I think "love your partner, but don't wanna fuck 'em" implies you've already failed in this regard.

[-] SuiXi3D@fedia.io 3 points 5 months ago

Why isn’t the partner doing the same in that situation?

this post was submitted on 16 Apr 2024
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