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to those of you of either sex who wear thongs or strings, doesn't the back side get in direct contact with your anus? (linux.community)

submitted 8 months ago by permit54@linux.community to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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and, don't you notice something rubbing against it when you move?

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[–] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 21 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Eh, it's not "terrifying" it's just a kink thing and it tends to get a lot of unwarranted negativity (imo because of insecure people). It's definitely not for everyone but, as with nearly all things sexual, it's never a bad idea to investigate things just to see if you're into it.

[–] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 7 points 8 months ago

I'm sure some people find it disturbing or terrifying. Certainly not all. As for whether people are into it or not, it's their life and I'm not going to tell them what to do.

[–] azulavoir@sh.itjust.works 4 points 8 months ago

I'm secure about my sexuality and I still don't like cages - but more because if I'm with a cute submissive guy I really really want to play with his cock y'know, and if he's not going to let me that's a bit of a deal breaker