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Dilema (beehaw.org)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Foidi@beehaw.org to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

Hi! I am making that post to ask for help and your opinions. I am prety much fully transitioned socially, as I use my chosen name, pronouns, dress femme and stuff like that. But I still get taken as a man most of the time due to my voice and facial hair, and there comes my question. I am not sure what bathrooms I should be using? Coz on the one hand I try to look as passing as I can, but on the other I clearly dont yet, so I am worried about geting is some unpleasent situation. Especialy that I can tell by the way people treat me that they are more willing to accept just a dude dressed in womans clothing, rather than trans girl. What should I do? :c

Update: I have gathered courage and have dacided to use them, coz well I am a girl and I gotta start geting used to it

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[-] autumn@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

there are stickers in a bunch of the bathrooms around town that say “a trans person peed here” and it’s one of the most delightful things i see when i’m peeing. so yeah, pee where you want (assuming it’s a toilet of some kind). stalls are nice because we rarely see each other in the “common area” of the bathroom anyway.

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