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@mtf Do I look like a cute girl like this😇😇

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[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Honestly I’m cis afab and you’ve got me beat hands down on cute. I can’t rock that aesthetic to save my soul.

You go girl!

[–] sam@southampton.social 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Thank you and I'm sure you could do amazingly. I always feel I can't get close to being like a cis afab thanks for the helpful message saying I'm doing good :3

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Gosh friend, I appreciate the vote of confidence, but really I can’t pull off that innocent - but not at all ~_^ - cute thing you’ve got going on. It’s just not in my wheelhouse and that’s ok. I’m that tiny 5ft inclusive feminist asshole who lets dudes have it at the slightest hint of misogyny or phobia, that’s my place. I’m pegged as a man more often than most of my mtf friends are, despite appearing fully feminine, because I’m no longer performing my femininity in a way cishet men are ok with. And I like it this way.

You are rocking it, hun! You remind me, in this pic, of a woman I knew in my early 20s (also mtf, lovely lady!) She went and fixed my car for me by ripping off a part that’s unnecessary, and then put on this adorable geisha gown and we hit the town. Fucking blast, but she pulled off the gown so so much better than I could have because she just had the personality, the vibe, the towering 6 foot presence that makes you go “O.O…. ~_^”

You have that sort of vibe and I’m here for it!