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question for fellow bi/pan people (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 5 months ago by chumbalumber@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/lgbtq_plus@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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How do you distinguish between romantic attraction and strong friendship? Something I struggle with and when romantic attachment is suggested to me I don't know whether/how to say yes/no.

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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 6 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

IDK myself... I'm pretty sure I'm just aromantic or perhaps just another symptom of having BPD (I either hate you or love you; there's no in-between).

I would have sex with anyone. I can be friends with almost anyone. And I can sure as hell have both someone who has sex with me that's a friend. What more is there? Dumb gestures instead of just communicating your feelings verbally?

I've searched for an explanation of "romantic attraction" that I can actually understand and still don't know what the hell it really means. So either I don't experience it, or it's just not easy to explain. Or I am the dumb. 🤷🏻‍♂️