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Do they dislike me for no good reason? If yes: fuck them, I’m awesome!
Do they dislike me because I did something dumb? Let’s talk and let me appologise if I cocked something up for you. My intentions are rarely malicius.
This let’s me live a happy life knowing I didn’t ruin anyone’s day and ignore the rest.
Agreed.
Because of my kind nature it isn't very often that people dislike me or have a problem with me.
When they do it's always the same story for 99% of other people. So they just don't get along with anyone. Can't people please them all...
Have you considered that you're a people pleaser? Being kind and nice is good, but do you do that in detriment of yourself? Can you say no to favors?