this post was submitted on 24 Jul 2024
54 points (100.0% liked)

Transfem

3451 readers
306 users here now

A community for transfeminine people and experiences.

This is a supportive community for all transfeminine or questioning people. Anyone is welcome to participate in this community but disrupting the safety of this space for trans feminine people is unacceptable and will result in moderator action.

Debate surrounding transgender rights or acceptance will result in an immediate ban.

Posters may express that they are looking for responses and support from groups with certain experiences (eg. trans people, trans people with supportive parents, trans parents.). Please respect those requests and be mindful that your experience may differ from others here.

To make such a request, at the start of the body of your post, not in the title, the first line should look like the this: [Requesting Engagement from _________]

Some helpful links:

Support Hotlines:

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
 

So I've spent the last few decades with very short hair. It's naturally quite wavy, and now I've started growing it out, it's sticking out in all directions and looks a total mess, particularly around the ears. What do?

I know what shampoo and conditioner are, and I think I have a comb somewhere. Can anybody point to some good absolute-beginner tutorials, or give advice? I'm sure someone's been through the same thing...

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] OldEggNewTricks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Thank you! I guess I can't avoid the hairdresser for ever - I've been dreading the "yes, I actually do want it to look girly" conversation.

Looks like the CG method and moving off my current "don't care" brand shampoo is a good place to start. Here's to some experimentation :3

[–] recursive_recursion@programming.dev 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

tbh I don't think you should worry too much!

most if not all hairdressers I've met (in the conservative area I live in) are understanding and kind, so I personally think you'll be fineπŸ€—

Power to you!🌻

[–] OldEggNewTricks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Thank you (^-^)

[–] xilliah@beehaw.org 3 points 3 months ago

Nice! You'll definitely see improvement. Don't be afraid to invest some money in products that are nice for your body. Sure, some people overdo it, but it's totally healthy to love yourself!

When it comes to the social aspect of going to the hair dresser, well, that's something you could approach as a entirely seperate topic.