I was, multiple times. I always decided for the path I can justify the easiest to myself. Almost always, the lazy way was the one I didn't choose. I know I'll be still me in 10, 20, 50 years and I really don't want to look back to a time when I was younger but didn't do what'd give me the best position at older age. Yes, this even included not trying to find a girlfriend because I rather spend that time learning, self reflecting and pursuing a career. And I personally believe this was always the best decision. A lot of decisions can be made really easy if you look up stoicism and meditate about what truly is in your hand and what is totally chance of luck.