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Maybe it wasn't the mankissing, but the WAY the men were kissing. Going toothlicking in public isn't really cool no matter who's doing it, chicks, dudes, neither, etc.
Still my money is on bigot.
Asking them to leave is one thing, but assaulting one of them is inexcusable no matter what they were doing.
I think that goes without saying ....
Then the way they were kissing is irrelevant.
I disagree because something had to start the whole entire ordeal. It wasn't that he saw somebody kissing and walked over and assaulted him. It built up to it so you have really no idea what happened between the two of them. What was said what insults were made etc etc.
What's irrelevant is that there's no excuse to start beating up on people except in self-defense. So you got part of it right.
I guarantee nothing would have been said to begin with if it were a man kissing a woman the same way.
...dunno where you live, but if I started going with the tongue with my girl I would 100% get absolutely kicked out of any food place. It's not a place for that high public display of affection.
Not saying tho they did that. Just pointing out you're flat out wrong.
Well, not no matter. For all we know, one of them took the first swing, the video is very truncated.
I don't feel confident siding with either side with such limited information.
My money is also on bigotry, but the way Dingus said "began to kiss" makes me wonder how intense it was. If he'd said "gave my partner a kiss" that's one thing, but "began to kiss" sounds like it might have been more like "making out" which I don't want to see anyone doing in a restaurant.
I'm just speculating and the real answer is probably homophobia, especially given the assault that ensued.
I’m sure the difference is that if it were a hetero couple people might have commented “Get a room!” or something and left it at that, and it wouldn’t have escalated.
I think fat people aren't cool and gross to look at. So i expect that they respect my wish and keep away from me. I don't care if female or male, because i'm not a bigot.
Doesn't even compare to assault.