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My short Comrades do you feel dating is as hard for you as some incel types make it out to be? (hexbear.net)
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Some of these guys make it seem like they have no prospects because they're like 5'7 or whatever .

Do you actually feel this way?

Honestly myself im 6'1 and my 5'8 pal gets way more attention from women than me.

Of course thats anecdotal, but.

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[โ€“] REgon@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I've had people just outright tell me I'm too short and won't date me but i didn't ask them they just felt this internal need to put me down for some reason.

Reminds me of the chick I matched with who I asked out for a date after a nice conversation and she responded with "Sorry, I only date 6'2''" and when I responded with "then why did you swipe right on me?" she unmatched me. Weird brainworms.

[โ€“] Gorb@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago

Tbh I think its a reaction to men policing womens bodies to then try and do the inverse but thats just a vibes based analysis. My perspective is all body shaming should stop and preferences are perfectly fine to have but there's no real need to broadcast what they are.