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[–] shortrounddev@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

Idk what you're talking about most Americans are mad at the state of out country

[–] dontbelasagne@lemmy.world 19 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Brainwashing from the moment they were born

[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 3 points 4 days ago

Bread and circuses.

Though that's a little antiquated, so now it's "high fructose corn syrup and superbowl".

[–] BreadOven@lemmy.world 19 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I'm not even American and I'm mad. Most of what I've heard from Americans is that they're mad.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Same. I'm so mad and disappointed in America, but I can't let that override my compassion for its people. This whole thing is so frustrating to watch. Look at how the French do it, Americans! It's time to break some shit.

[–] Tedesche@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago (3 children)

You have compassion for us Americans, and that’s nice, but bear in mind we voted for this. As much as the people who voted for Trump may have done so out of desperation, we still made a catastrophically stupid decision. Trump isn’t the problem, he’s a symptom. The problem lies in the American people. We have been squashed by both our government and our corporations. We need a wake-up call, and if that means we need to suffer from our own choices then so be it. Maybe we haven’t suffered enough yet. If we’re so dumb that we vote for a malignant narcissist like Donald Trump, maybe we need to be squashed a bit more. We have the power to take back our country, we just need the will to do it. Maybe that comes from more hardship and regret. Maybe that comes from more suffering.

But maybe not. Maybe I’m wrong. I’m so disappointed with my own countrymen right now, maybe I’m not seeing things clearly. I don’t know. But I know we deserve what we voted for. The world doesn’t, and that’s a tragedy, but maybe America needs to take a hit and the world needs to rely less on us for both America and the world to be better. Again, I don’t know.

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Republicans have majority control over the media. They don't know what's happening because their news doesn't cover it.

[–] thedeadwalking4242@lemmy.world 12 points 6 days ago (6 children)

The majority aren’t at the point where they are willing to sacrifice everything yet. They have families, homes, food, friends. Currently the administration hasn’t taken away enough from enough people to get it really going. It will be coming though. People just haven’t felt the affects yet

[–] delgato@sh.itjust.works 7 points 6 days ago

As a young man (I’m under 30) with 2 kids I feel stuck like this. A lot of the protesting actions I would have taken are tapered by “I have to be around for my kids”, but at the same time this country is not how I want my kids to be raised in and I don’t know my own red line for this. Suffice to say if I’m thinking about this 3 weeks into Trump’s America, then I hope I will feel compelled to be more active. NYC might be coming to a heat with the Mayor Adam’s BS so I’m keeping my eye out for any manifestations in the city.

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[–] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I'm mad, but what? Once we pull out the guillotines there's no going back, so right now I'm hoping that checks and balances thing starts to kick in soon.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I agree. I fought very hard for harm reduction. I just think the time for that has came and went. Now we have to mobilize the population and that's like a 10 year ordeal, if it's possible at all. It's slow going but we gave the democrats 8 years to do something I think 10 years for the people to get their act together might be doable.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I'm pissed off. I don't know what I'm supposed to do about it. If there's a protest near me I'll join it. If I see somebody getting fucked with by a Nazi I'll step in but I have responsibilities and a job and can't really afford to travel. So until shit really kicks off I'm kind of stuck in this state where I can't do anything.

All this is happening thousands of miles away from me behind locked doors.

[–] Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 8 points 5 days ago

Because a third of Americans are uninformed, another third is misinformed and thinks the current administration is in line with their goals, the other third is being gaslit by the other 2/3s that this is normal... And for those not buying the gaslighting, they are ignored and still too small of a group to do much.

[–] I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago (5 children)

30 years of watching progressive movements flounder and civil action lead to absolutely zero substantial changes has given me a defeatist attitude. What good is getting mad? It's not like it will change anything.

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[–] wabafee@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I think internet in general specifically social media. It allows you to vent your frustrations without doing actual damage. It's also easy to disconnect compared to marching to the streets.

I think social media has done tons of damage. It think it brought together a group of people who would have never found each other, because they don't have any decernable skills, and let them spread and consume misinformation at alarming rates.

[–] Yeller_king@reddthat.com 7 points 6 days ago

I dunno, they seem to be mad. It's just most of them are wrong about who they should be mad at and why

[–] MeaanBeaan@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago (7 children)

Who tf says we're not mad? We're fucking furious.

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I'm mad as fuck. Get me one (or more) of those traitorous bastards within arm's reach and they'll find out precisely how mad.

[–] mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 11 points 6 days ago

everyone I know is mad. disgusted. ashamed of our country and it's election systems that allow this incompetent clown show to destroy our democracy.

meanwhile joe joe could have had the cia murder trump et al, and probably gotten away with it considering the supreme court's bullshit.

strange thing to wish had happened.

[–] chilicheeselies@lemmy.world 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

What makes you think we are not mad?

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago (2 children)

You just don't seem mad. Maybe upset but like you'll get over it in like 4 years or what ever.

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[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Those of us who are extremely upset about the state of our country are constantly wondering WTF is wrong with the other ones. I think a large part of it is a slow, progressive dumbing down by our growing addiction to entertainment and convenience. We've become a nation of 13-year-olds who think mom is a bitch for making us go to the dentist.

[–] Professorozone@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago

Gaslighting?

[–] Sabata11792@ani.social 7 points 6 days ago

Everyone is mad and everyone can't agree why were mad so now were more mad.

There’s plenty that are mad.

Just that the minority that are happy about it and the billionaires that own all forms of media keep sweeping that fact under the rug. Or they put a question mark at the end of it. Are Americans all that upset about trump? How much damage is trump really doing? And then they softball the response to questions like that with “who really knows what the damage will be? when it’s objective what the results are and the future holds.

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 7 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

i think they are. they just been propagandized so hard with anticommunism that they are at a loss of what to do. thats not even just the us.

[–] drmoose@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I think we're just on a down wave globally. In early 00s we got social media which helped to organize people and lead to real actionable ideas. The bad actors figured it out and took control of our tools and now people are waiting for a new opportunity.

I think Americans need a strong leader and something to break the camel's back. Everyone's who's angry now doesn't have a good "deal" for risking exposure and their complacency because the failures are just too recent.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

"Wanting a strong leader" is what gave us trump. You be a leader or allow yourself to be led by people in your local community. There is no perfect leader that could ever check everyone's boxes. If there was one thing we could all agree on I'd like to know what it fucking is.

[–] GoofSchmoofer@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

trump isn't a strong leader, he's a very accomplished con artist.

He allows people to project their vision of who he is on him.

You say I'm christian? Sure I'll pretend I am

You say I'm anti abortion? Sure I'll pretend that I am

You say I'm for the little guy? Sure, I'll pretend that I care about them

You say I'm anti-vax? Sure, I'll tell you that I am

You say I'm the second coming of Christ? Okay, I'm good with you thinking that about me

You say I'm a strong patriot? Sure, I'll hug the flag and say the words you need me to say

He is everything to everyone of his supporters because he never tells them that they are wrong about who he is.

A strong leader is someone that has strong convictions and articulates them in a way that resonates with the population. They are not people that waffle in their ideals, you either like their stance or you don't. Smart ones will adjust their ideas over time but they do this from a strong ideological foundation. Some are genuinely good people like MLK, jr. others are more despotic. What America needs is one or two genuinely good strong leaders.

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[–] bitwolf@sh.itjust.works 6 points 6 days ago

Everyone I talk to is mad, my family is a bunch of Tumpers and beloeve everything he says.

[–] Auli@lemmy.ca 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

The majority of people votes for this that is why. The no voters just wanted a clean conscious but they still voted for this.

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[–] aesthelete@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

The feeling that nobody else really gives a shit is what does it for me.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I care too, what can I do to prove that I care to you?

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