By default in our country. You have to unregister if you don't want it.
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Yes, because I'd want others to be if I needed it.
Nice try fed, won't get my organs that easily
I'm volunteer to donate because of I accidentally die, rather that it deserve someone who would have more luck than me rather than no one.
Now in Belgium it works a bit differently. Everyone is, by default, considered as a donor.
You can then register to either refuse it or to impose it whatever your family says.
This is because the law is that the doctors must always ask the family if they are ok to give organs from diseased family member even with the "by default donor", with the registration you can say "don't ask my family and just do it".
This can be used in two situation in my opinion, the first one being family that have different conviction and may refuse despite the opinion of the diseased. The second situation (mine) being not wanting to worry grieving family with one more difficult decision to take.
Not sure if I'm completely registered, but any time I've been asked I check Yes, and I have it checked on my health card.
Like you said: "why not?" Not like I'll be using them any more at that point.
I am not. HOWEVER, it is simply because my spouse will be the one to make the decision. Not that I don't trust doctors, but it's a decision my spouse and I talked about.
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Please don't bury me down in the cold cold ground
In all seriousness I'd rather they cut me up and pass me all around.
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Yes however, I'm torn between either donating my organs or donating my body to science.
My thinking is I could maybe help save a couple of lives if my organs are in a decent enough state, although with my life style they probably wont be, or maybe my body could be used as a cadaver to train new doctors possibly saving a lot more lives.
Even if its not used for training doctors my thinking is that even a small amount learnt from the use of my body has got to help somewhere.
I would highly recommend donating to a specific organization rather than as a "uniform anatomical gift". Unless you're fine with being sold by a body broker and used for explosives/crash testing, or forensic entomological decomposition research: https://www.cbsnews.com/news/bodies-donated-to-science-largely-unregulated-cbs-reports/
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Yes. My state makes it really easy, just check a box when renewing your ID or driver's license. I can only hope if I lost my life I could give a new lease on life to someone else.
Yes, but I've since been diagnosed with leukemia.... Hopefully that doesn't mean my spare parts are trash but I suspect that's the case.
Yeah, I'm registered, just in case the agency in charge manages to not fuck up that day.
No. Religious reasons
Just as a pro-tip, "No." is a complete answer. You don't need religious reasons.
I worked as a transplant coordinator, and we talked to a lot of different people from a lot of different religions. This is something I wish I could have said to everyone who ever told me no because of religious reasons: I really hope you don't feel like you have to make up a reason.
We can start with, no organized religions specifically prohibit organ donation.
There are some religions, like Jehovah's Witnesses, that probibit receiving blood transfusions, but organ donation doesn't require blood transfusion, and the decision is left to the individual.
There are also some religions and folklore that believe the body must remain intact after death, but those beliefs are not consistent or particularly widespread. Some Shinto believers refuse donation to avoid angering the spirits of the dead, but that's also an individual choice rather than an official position.
So when we would discuss how to approach people of varying faiths, it was important to understand the underlying reasons for objections to donations. It's also important to recognize that, despite what is on your license, it's really not up to you. The transplant coordinator is talking to your next of kin, and they will be the one making the final decision. If I'm talking to you about donation, it's because someone close to you has died, and we're not discussing your beliefs. We will discuss what they would have wanted.
Nine times out of ten, when someone would cite religious objections, they were not members of an obscure Roma group or Shinto practitioners. We do have a significant number of Jehovah's Witnesses in our region, and our consent rates were roughly the same for those families. That might be different depending on where you live.
Far more likely for our region, people were using "religious reasons" as a social trump card that gives them an out without looking selfish. Donation is an uncomfortable concept for a lot of people, and you're talking to them at one of the worst times in their lives. Not everyone is up for having that conversation, and any transplant coordinator will understand when someone says "no." Still, a lot of people think they will get pressured to do something they aren't confortable with, and will make arguments they think "win" the discussion in the shortest amount of time.
The key is, I'm not going to tell you what you believe. I'm not your spiritual advisor or religious leader. I can help navigate those waters if asked, but if you say you have religious objections, I don't need to know what they are. You don't want to donate.
When I spoke with families, I was advocating for the people waiting for a transplant. There are people living better lives today because I was able to persuade donor families to overcome their objections. My second priority was making the process as comfortable for the families as possible. It made no difference to me whether those objections were religious or personal. If someone wanted to talk about it, we'd talk about it. If they couldn't, we didn't.
Others have mentioned in this thread that donors are exceptionally rare. Few people die in a way that makes donation possible. So when they do, their families are presented a unique situation where they are in a position to help others. Most people will help other people when they can, but the ones that don't aren't lesser humans. It isn't selfish to say that it's too much, too painful, too disturbing to think about. Because it is. You're in the acute phase of a significant loss. You do not need to justify your feelings, and you should not feel defensive about what you want for your loved one.
If you don't want to talk to someone about donation, you can just say "No."
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Not in the US but yes.
no, I will when I'm 18 tho
like others have said, I'm dead, idgaf
Yes. In fact, I just registered for this a few weeks ago.
Yes. I can't think of a better use for them than saving a life (or hopefully lives) at the time when not only they're not going to be useful to me, but there will actually be no me to even be able to make use of them.
And I live a healthy life, so hopefully some of them might be useful whether I die of old age or any other cause (except falling into a meat grinder of course, then all this gym going and veg eating will be in vein).
Also, fingers crossed they'll find a dope body who's my HLA match and will need a brain transplant ๐ค
Yeah dude, if I have anything they can use. It's not like I'll be using them anymore, and I have a couple of friends who've gotten donor organs, so I've seen firsthand how it impacts people. I tried to be a kidney donor for another friend but it turns out I don't have enough extra function that they thought I could give one away. I'm fine, my kidneys are just not going above and beyond, I guess.
Yes, in the case of an untimely death i could really help people.
I remember a guy went around to all the different country subs and asked what they thought about an opt-out organ donor policy instead of an opt-in donor. The results were interesting (which you can probably guess).
Reminds me of this gem: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sp-pU8TFsg0
Back on topic. I believe this is opt-out in my country (if it didn't change recently), so unless you specifically state that you want all your organs inside to feed the worms or to get more ash for your urn, you're automatically possible donor.
EDIT: Just checked, it's still opt-out. It's opt-in only for minors and incapacitated - their parents/legal representative have to agree.
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