heyy 196, a friend is brainworming and thinks no one will be attracted to them, if they get boobs. they have a twinkish build and expect big boobs. what do y'all think?

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[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 43 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I've had a few trans boyfriends, and I was still attracted to them when they took their binders off ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Also, there's nothing preventing them from stopping hormones if they start to grow bigger than they are comfortable with.

[–] riwo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

thank you, thats honestly what i thought.

they mainly take e for the emotional effect it has on them (i dont think thats why they started but its why they wont stop), so they dont have much controll over their breast growth

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 5 months ago

Generally you can get the emotional effects at a lower dose than would cause *extensive* breast growth. They could adjust dosages accordingly.

[–] Maven@lemmy.zip 26 points 5 months ago

Boobs are boobs and boobs are hot...

That's pretty much it really. I'm attracted to boobs. The rest is circumstantial.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 5 months ago

The percentage of the worlds population that does not like boobs is pretty small

[–] knightly@pawb.social 14 points 5 months ago

Boob-having, guy-ish enby here.

They're totally gonna be attractive! Being an unusual type just means they're gonna get more double-takes from curious passers-by. Even ignoring the chasers, there's lots of folks who are into it!

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 12 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I'm guessing the worry is about whether people will find them attractive in a boy way if they have big boobs. It might be about seeming too much like a woman if they have such noticeable boobs. There will obviously be people attracted to them, but will those people see their boobs as manly? The literal concern sounds like brainworms, but it seems motivated by dysphoria rather than dating options. That dysphoria doesn't seem based in reason, so it probably can't be reasoned away.

I've heard of treatments that interfere with breast growth, but I have no idea which ones or how effective they are. The acceptance route can have an effect, but if they feel really dysphoric about it, acceptance probably won't get them all the way.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

I think the F1nnster "coming out as trans" video mentioned they were on something to prevent breast growth?

[–] knightly@pawb.social 5 points 5 months ago

Yeah!

They're called Selective Estrogen Receptor Modulators or SERMs: https://transfemscience.org/articles/serms-transfem/

[–] janet_catcus@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 5 months ago

i mean... if you find someone who loves you, they love you. not the meatsack that keeps changing over time anyways... if they want to get old with you, well... they will <3

[–] WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 5 months ago

GOD I FUCKING LOVE MAN BOOBA 🔥🔥🔥

[–] aBundleOfFerrets@sh.itjust.works 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

They worried about E?

[–] riwo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 5 months ago (1 children)

yes

[–] knightly@pawb.social 5 points 5 months ago

Advise them that selective estrogen receptor modulators exist. All the girly softness with little to no boob growth: https://transfemscience.org/articles/serms-transfem/

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 8 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

"If you're a big fat man, I'm a titty fan, and I'd love to see yours too!" - Rodney Carrington

[–] nifty@lemmy.world 8 points 5 months ago

For your consideration, I submit Gren from Cowboy Bepop, who many would say is attractive

[–] MxRemy@lemmy.one 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I love guys with boobs! A lot of people must, there was actually an entire subreddit devoted to them lol

[–] knightly@pawb.social 5 points 5 months ago

We need a sublemmy, I'd post some nudes there =D

[–] Marighost@lemm.ee 5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Hell yeah.

[–] unmarketableplushie@pawb.social 3 points 5 months ago

I love guys with boobs!! Especially twinks :3