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A man in Japan who has four wives and two girlfriends – and aims to father 54 children – wants to become the “God of Marriage”.

Ryuta Watanabe, 36, who lives in the northern prefecture of Hokkaido, has not worked for 10 years and lives entirely on the salaries of his wives and girlfriends.

His wives are common-law in nature, recognised as partners in a marriage-like relationship without formal registration, based on long-term cohabitation and shared responsibilities.

Watanabe is already the father of 10 children and lives with two of them and three of his wives, Japan’s Shueisha Online reported.

He takes on the role of a house husband, cooking, doing housework and taking care of the children.

The household expenses, which are almost 914,000 yen (US$6,000) a month, are split between his wives and girlfriends.

Watanabe also has a fourth wife, who is 24 years old, but they are estranged. In addition, he met two girlfriends via social media platforms.

Six years ago, a depressed Watanabe who was living on welfare, was dumped by his girlfriend.

He said it was this that pushed him to start dating various women through dating apps.

Earlier this year, on the Japanese TV show Abema Prime, Watanabe said: “I just love women. As long as we love each other equally, there won’t be any problems.”

Watanabe also said that each of his wives has her own room, and he rotates sleeping with different wives every night.

He claimed to have sex more than 28 times a week, and said his wives never get jealous, instead, they get along well like friends.

Watanabe aims to break the record for the most children fathered in Japan, becoming a so-called God of Marriage.

Online sources indicate that Tokugawa Ienari, a shogun who died in 1841, fathered around 53 children with 27 concubines during his reign in the Edo Period.

Watanabe said: “I want to have 54 children so my name will go down in history. I’m still looking for new wives.”

Polygamy is illegal in Japan, meaning Watanabe cannot legally marry multiple women at once.

Watanabe’s unconventional family lifestyle has attracted attention on social media.

One person on YouTube said: “His kids will never be able to have a close relationship with their father because there are just too many of them.”

“I would never let my own children end up like this man,” said another.

However, a third took a different view: “They seem like a happy family. Respect their choices.”

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[–] shadowedcross@sh.itjust.works 37 points 4 weeks ago

Man is a harem anime protagonist.

[–] De_Narm@lemmy.world 26 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

One man, single-handedly fighting the declining birth rate in Japan.

Questions of morality aside, he could probably help others too, finding multiple woman who not only like you but are fine with this kind of setup is quite a skill many would like to learn, I'd assume.

[–] Riven@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 4 weeks ago

I wonder if there's any desperation on the women side there. I've seen documentaries about women getting swindled because of their loneliness. I'll have to do some research.

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 8 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Watanabe is already the father of 10 children and lives with two of them and three of his wives

I wonder how often he's caring for the other 8 kids that aren't living with him.

most children fathered in Japan, becoming a so-called God of Marriage.

God of fertility, dummy. Marriage and children can happen without the other.

He claimed to have sex more than 28 times a week

That's at least 4 times a day. Well, he's got time, being the "man of the house". I know I wouldn't have enough energy for that, what with having to care for at least 2 kids.

Also, since he's coasting on the wives/girlfriends for money anyway, he should try ye olde way and buy a farm, should have enough space for the whole family and hopefully good enough terrain for some subsistence farming.

[–] PyroNeurosis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 4 weeks ago

While I also wanna know more about these kids (esp. those who aren't living with him), Imma take issue with your assertion that he's coasting. Househusband is no small job, even in relatively small families. He's contributing, but we cannot see it because it isn't laid out in numbers.

[–] clay_pidgin@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 weeks ago

I'm glad they're happy, but it seems like a shallow reason on which to base their relationships.

[–] ReversalHatchery@beehaw.org -4 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] RedditRefugee69@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] ReversalHatchery@beehaw.org 2 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (2 children)

probably. to me this is purely an animalistic instinct at work, and at point that I wouldn't be surprised if he walked the streets half naked all the time and always touched all women in his proximity.

other than that, I think there are already too many people on this planet, and that just makes it absurd in another way.

oh and then there's the question if he can care for so many children, all their mothers, including financing the household. I don't think he can, but maybe he doesn't want that either

[–] RedditRefugee69@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I think you're unfairly making the leap from non monogamous to sexual predator.

[–] ReversalHatchery@beehaw.org 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

non monogamous is fine, but to me this is more than that. every person involved other than him is at a disadvantage on the long term

[–] RedditRefugee69@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 3 weeks ago

According to your sense of value.

It could be they prefer the arrangement.

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 1 points 4 weeks ago

He doesn't, he mooches off the women.

It's honestly an impressive grift, the man has created a sex cult without even having to pretend it's about anything other than getting his dick wet.