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I asked if people chose iPhone for the blue bubbles elsewhere a couple days ago, and while there was some good discourse on that post, the blue bubbles definitely also came up as a reason.

In my experience, when people find out my texts are green, they oftentimes would rather switch to a different platform altogether like Instagram or just not text at all.

Is this actually a deal-breaker in friendships out there?

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[–] borkcorkedforks@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

I could see some features they might want like texts not counting as an SMS or higher quality pics. Using an app fixes those issues so is whatever. Not texting at all is agreeable but don't expect me to reach out...

[–] Omen2819@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

The only time it’s an issue for me is when the other person isn’t willing to message me on another app instead of trying to use SMS. I get horrible cell service where I live and my only options are iMessage or an app like Signal /WhatsApp/Messenger.

So this is when adding someone with an Android to a group conversation that was taking place using iMessage can cause some irritation.

[–] Litany@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

This makes me legitimately curious. If you're having this limitation on iPhone, would you consider switching to Android, as the standard MMS protocol supported by Android (and every non Apple vendor) works on wifi/data just fine? iPhone not integrating iMessage with the MMS standard is what causes the issue here.

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[–] Mando@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

iPhone user Most of the world uses Whatsapp, so this is a non issue for me

[–] ZestycloseReception8@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I live in the US and this was never a problem for me? If it is then these people aren't really your friends. Think of it as a litmus test for finding friends.

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[–] hddsx@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

I mean this came up in a recent group chat we had where I asked who the green text user was. It's not that we didn't continue the text. It's that we have to realize that we are using plain text messages and that our iMessage features no longer work. If your friends don't text you because you have an android, they're not your friends.

[–] Koordinator_O@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

The heck are blue bubbles? Is this post about some fancy soap?

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[–] DivergentHarmonics@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 year ago

Real friends know how to mod the droid ;-)

And thanks to all who enlightened me about that blue and green and bubble issue. Hmm. my Telegram indeed is set to a greenish-bubbly theme but that's a coincidence.

[–] JoelJ@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

iphones aren't that common in Australia where I am so it's never come up as a problem here. I usually give people shit when I find out they're using one cos imo they're a waste of money lol

[–] encode8062@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago

Just use a service that works on both android and iOS such as Signal.

[–] lumberjacked@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I have a friend who said he was left out of a lot of group chat with his roommates because he was the green bubble. He switched to iPhone and they still were meeting up without him.

That’s when he realized it was him, not the color of his bubble…

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[–] Pika@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

It's not a strict deal breaker for me, I use an Android myself. But I will definitely preach to people the differences between Apple and Android, because in the US there is a vast divide and for some reason they think that it's a status symbol to have an Apple device, and they will boast like it's some great thing. It's super fun to pull up the hardware specs and show them that my phone Beats there new iPhone in almost every category. Then I end it with saying that both systems have ups and down, apples biggest Pro is going to be their interface, but if you are a techie or want actual control over the phone itself stick with Android. Most of the "incompatibilities" between the two systems, are Apple generated, meaning that they've gone out of the way in some way to actively forbid it. Bluetooth is a perfect example of this, Apple devices support it for audio transfer and Airdrop uses Bluetooth for its transfer medium, but you can't transfer files strictly over Bluetooth because the functionality has been intentionally removed to allow the walled garden state.

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[–] itscozydownhere@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

In Europe no one uses SMSs so the blue/green stuff doesn’t exist (they all use WhatsApp for some reason). iPhone are only costly or very costly so yeah they are a bit of a status symbol. Applies to all expensive stuff. Personally I love mine and I love the experience of using Apple products, but I don’t care about what anyone uses

[–] r00ty@kbin.life 2 points 1 year ago

Not wanting to talk to you, because your text bubbles are the wrong colour? Sounds a bit cultlike in behaviour. I daresay I don't know anyone like that. But, I also don't know too many people with iphones any more. Also I don't really use text messages. For text I'm using whatsapp or signal (or for techie types maybe matrix).

[–] Khorgor666@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Are you from the US? In Germany we use WhatsApp Threema or Telegram for messaging, nobody cares about some bubble colour.

[–] arcimboldo@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 year ago

It took me quite some time to understand what OP was talking about...

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[–] Today@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

My family uses Whatsapp and my work department uses GroupMe. On group chats, the messages were sometimes getting stuck on sms.

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