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I asked if people chose iPhone for the blue bubbles elsewhere a couple days ago, and while there was some good discourse on that post, the blue bubbles definitely also came up as a reason.

In my experience, when people find out my texts are green, they oftentimes would rather switch to a different platform altogether like Instagram or just not text at all.

Is this actually a deal-breaker in friendships out there?

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[–] TenderfootGungi@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It is a pain in group chats. That one green bubble means the chat falls back to basic text. That means I effectively cannot send a video (possible, but unusable quality).

At that point I would rather use something like WhatsApp. Which is fine if everyone in the group has it. At least it is cross platform.

But I am seriously considering buying my sister, who has a cheap husband, an iPhone just so she does not mess up a family group chat.

[–] richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one 1 points 1 year ago

I live in a country where the dollar value of iPhone makes them more of a luxury item, sought by people of means or by hipsters.

Most people here tend to communicate via WhatsApp. People with iPhones probably discriminate others for many other reasons before even reaching the bubble color for messages, so they self-select out of the lives of most people.

[–] bleeps@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

As an iPhone user, whenever I'm in a group chat with one or more Android users, sending images tends to time out and fail to send for whatever reason. Also video sometimes is very tiny. In those cases I'd rather use another app for a smoother experience for everyone.

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[–] bighi@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is so American...

"Let me send an SMS, while I ride my horse to go to my bank and do other things that people used to do in 1870."

"Oh, their SMS color is different! I dislike people with a different color than me."

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[–] art@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (3 children)

The green color that Apple chose for SMS was picked because of how harsh it is on the eyes. They want you to hate talking to non Apple users.

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[–] KrisKao@feddit.uk 0 points 1 year ago

Most of the world uses WhatsApp, and it does not matter if you have iPhone or Android. Are you in the USA? I hear it is the only country where people use apple messages so much that it matters.

[–] Encryption@feddit.ch 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Wait, so people decide on a phone based of OS because of blue or green chat message colors? This is the first time I'm hearing this, is this something more of a USA thing or does this apply to other ocuntries as well?

Buying a phone based on chat bubble color seems something that occurs in a toxic society, where you are judged based on phone model. And why do they then change to an other platform to write you?

I never had a discussion about Andriod or IPhone based on this parameter, it was more about UI, services and design of the phone. To be fair we all use third party messengers like Signal or Threema.

[–] interocitor@lemmy.fmhy.ml 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It's a US thing. It took european carriers a very long time to offer unlimited texts (especially across borders) which in turn helped apps like Whatsapp, Signal, Telegram. iPhones display messages/SMS from non-iPhones in green bubbles. Pictures sent from non-iPhones are displayed in lower resolutions because Apple doesn't support some standard or smth.

[–] nyar@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] Transcendant@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Don't care about bubble colours, tbf I can probably change that with Android... user modification like this is one of the reasons I prefer it.

With iPhone, once you have one Apple device, your entire device ecosystem has to be a part of the same walled garden... or they don't play nice with each other. Also, imo while Apple devices are often good quality, they massively overcharge for it (considering the cost to assemble and produce the hardware).

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[–] hunt4peas@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I use Android with Snapdragon processors to be able to unlock bootloader and flash a custom ROM. This allows me to get Google goodies, even those which current Pixels and any other device, be it an Android or an iPhone, lack. For example: Unlimited original quality photo and video uploads to Google Photos. Regarding your bubble situation, as others have already chimed in, non-US peeps just don't care about it.

[–] ki77erb@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

For example: Unlimited original quality photo and video uploads to Google Photos

How do you get that unlimited with a custom ROM? They don't even give that to Pixel owners anymore.

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[–] qwed113@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I myself use an iPhone, but I don’t at all look down on people who use android.

Hell, I love android and really wish I could use android phones. But I have had several unfortunate occurrences on my two android phones I owned in the past - OS bugs, buggy apps, OS that slows down significantly after one year, dropped texts, dropped calls, dropped voicemails, the list goes on.

Android (in my experience) was incredibly unreliable. Ever since getting an iPhone I haven’t had any of those issues.

[–] JTskulk@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What brand were the phones? That makes a huge difference.

[–] qwed113@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Motorola Droid Razr Maxx and Samsung Galaxy S5

I understand that these devices are from years ago and things may have changed since then, but I have friends who still run into odd OS glitches on their new Pixel phones

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[–] KittyBitTees@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

People that use Apple messaging are clearly lost and don't know good software exists.

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[–] Axe_Oh_Lot_Tell@lemm.ee 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If they do just move on. It's nice of them to display their red flags like that

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[–] rufus@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Excuse me. i don't know what i'm saying but i havent had any green or blue bubbles yet in my life. i guess you're referring to apple's messenger? i don't like that term, but i think people who just believe in iphones (without thinking any further) are sheep. you get nice cloud services, a clean ecosystem and colored bubbles, but little to none control over your device, privacy and a skewed perspective on other people. Idk. Just don't let your phone define you and your friends. I won't. And i won't accept friends who define friendship by the operating system on somebodys phone.

[–] jemorgan@lemm.ee 0 points 1 year ago (4 children)

SMS is just awful, sending someone an image only for them to get a pixelated mess feels bad. Definitely not any kind of dealbreaker though, and I personally don’t know anyone who could care less about the color of chat bubbles. iMessage is just seamless, works across all my devices and never requires even trivial troubleshooting, which makes it a strong preference.

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