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[–] Ret2libsanity@infosec.pub 27 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Why would you tell women what you make?

I make well into 6 figures but I feel like advertising that while dating is a recipe for failure

[–] miraclerandy@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago

That’s exactly why I start every conversation by telling women I’m homeless.

Kidding aside, I agree that you should talk financials after a time but if they’re asking super early about how much you make, that’s a red flag.

[–] Evoke3626@lemmy.fmhy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Because it’s a flex. People do it all the time. I don’t agree with it but it’s common.

[–] lowleveldata@programming.dev 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You call yourself an expert and you don't even have some throw away phone numbers ready on your tool belt

[–] rcmaehl@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Amateurs! My VOIP provider is behind seven proxies!

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

My proxies are behind 8 physical walls in the middle of a field in Nebraska and I live in Europe!

[–] oryx@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

Suffering from success

[–] Kadaj21@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh that’d be nice to make six figures lol. Will getting a SSCP get me there? [I dont think i live in a HCOL area]

[–] SirNuke@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I kinda hate to be like this, but if you are in a tech position, past the early entry level nonsense, and not making six figures (in the US) then you need to be job hunting.

I don't know if any particular certification will get you there, but IT remains a great practical field to be in. Don't make any sort of "I'm just in this for the money" apologies.

[–] HubertManne@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

yeah six figures is not what it used to be. like in 2020.

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