Late comment but yeah, stop dating the person. They will ruin you. You are polar opposites but you don't see it because they can be so accommodating. Until they can't. They will destroy you mentally and emotionally. Even if they maybe don't want to. After 6 to 9 months they will start to invalidate you. They will hurt you just to have you chase them. Hope you are okay now, but borderline is a funny term. They have no borders. Just like you probably. Because you're mostly a kind and decent person. You need to have your own borders, unless they make your borders for you. It's like a drug addiction. How far can you go before you succumb. That's when they will discard you.

They can't help it, it's what they do. They've been hurt when they were young and this is what they do. Don't hold a grudge against them, they cannot help themselves. Save yourself.

I hope you are in a safe space now.

Not yet.

Edit: I don't mean that as a tankie stance. I mean 'drowning man will clutch at a straw' kind of thing.

Reddit: I made this

Just give it to the ones still believing. Not me though

Shhh dont tell em

Thunder is neat.

And now you can use that picture to even extend it with: We're currently enjoying our checkout at different registers, where there's not peanut nutjobs at the register. I like it too.

But I'm about to travel and will not poop for 3 days at least /s

You don't have to pay for the license /s

Make sure they're not from the same company though.