[-] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 38 points 5 days ago

When I was younger I was offered a gig to help disassemble an abandoned cottage by hand. Turns out it had burned from the inside when a fire had spread from the fireplace - somebody had went inside to try and keep warm in the winter and ended up burning themselves and the cottage. What adds some spice to the story is the fact that in the past the cottage was a "troll's hut" funfair kinda thing where kids, myself included, went to meet the "forest troll" and do some drawing etc.

Had nightmares about it for quite a while.

[-] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 9 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Not a short story but I recall we read Call of the Wild in school. Some nice animal cruelty for kids to think about.

[-] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 13 points 2 weeks ago

Works with every other kind of dish too

[-] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 weeks ago

From looms to wrooms, why not!

[-] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 32 points 2 weeks ago

Could be basically any japanese company 😅

[-] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 5 points 2 weeks ago

How bout the where ever you are larm?

[-] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 5 points 2 weeks ago

I once found a fake Harry Potter book named Harry Potter and Deatbly Hallows, probably just a pirated version of the actual book, never read it, but funny to not spell-check the name.

[-] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Oh boi this is so relatable. It seems that I've been running on anxiety my whole life.

For me it seems to help that I find validation and reasons for those feelings (eg from videos explaining why ADHD or CPTSD causes such behaviors and thought patterns) and through that understanding internalize that there is always a reason for everything and no, the reason is not that I'm a shitty person.

Allowing myself to stim helps, I didn't even realize how much I've been blocking it.

I think the most noticeable help from the meds is in social situations, but also the fact that I can always "play the AuDHD card" helps - given that the people are safe enough to reveal this diagnosis.

I process thoughts and feelings by doing physical things so evening walks are super important to clear some of the chaos inside my head.

My SO is also on the spectrum but in a way opposite of me that they don't really have strict rules and schedules to keep their life together like I do, so we learn from each other: I try to give more space to things that cause me anxiety and over all loosen my grip, and they try to create more structure in their life.

Also conscious choices on what to ruminate and what not is sometimes helpful: do I REALLY need to think about this right now?

If I'm full of chaos or anxiety when I go to bed I have a conversation in my head with an imaginary friend that will validate my feelings and experiences and tell me what I need to hear. It gives a different perspective which can be helpful.

So many things yet to understand and the re-learning is just in the beginning, but even so it feels like a big change already! The years of neglecting myself have taken their toll for sure but I hope there's still hope left.

[-] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 2 points 3 weeks ago

Thanks for the heads up - can't wait! :)

[-] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

2 x 5 I'd guess, hard to see but that shifter box seems to have to knobs and the right one has 5 marks

[-] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 10 points 3 weeks ago

This july I finally realized that I have no choice but consciously change the ways I think and react to things. There has been plenty of difficult things in my life the last couple of years and after experiencing a burnout (again, I understood afterwards it's not the first time but hasn't been this bad before) this summer I had to look myself in the mirror and decide to start making changes, things can't go on like this anymore, I can't keep on living like this anymore. It's sad that it seems often these realizations only come when one hits the bottom in a way or another.

I've been to a 3-year therapy and tried meds and so on, I'm sure they "paved the path" but didn't help me comprehend why I have these troubles that I have and didn't give me the understanding/empathy towards myself and others that is needed to actually change the thought and reaction models that are problematic, especially anger and shame issues.

Anyways I've been looking at videos on youtube about CPTSD and they have helped me a lot. Especially I find Tim Fletcher's videos useful as he thoroughly looks into the underlying issues and different ways CPTSD shows up in people, just the facts as they are. He's kind of an old school lecturer type guy, nothing fancy and shiny (needs to be taken with a grain of salt though as he doesn't seem to have understanding on ADHD/autism and has religious aspects in some of his videos).

Of course being recently diagnosed with ADHD gives more light to why I'm the way I am. But now I've been able to start to work on my stuff from a different angle and it seems to take an effect! A difficult and rocky path but I suppose the first steps are the hardest.

[-] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 3 points 3 weeks ago

Hey OP I wanted to thank you for the playlist again, it has become my favorite and I truly enjoy the overall mood and well thought order of songs! I listen to it fairly often and have recommended to others as well. I tried to PM my thanks but the app keeps crashing 😅

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This article about owlets being rescued from a chimney made it to the national news! It's in Finnish, but here's a quick google translation.

Tl,dr: two owlets were stuck in a mansion's chimney in Tervakoski, Finland. They were rescued after a 24-hour operation and both were in good health, although very hungry.

The rescue operation lasted a day in Janakkala, Kanta-Häme, when two barn owl chicks were trapped in the labyrinthine chimney of the Tervakoski manor.

Locals visiting the old manor were eating dinner on Thursday when a strange creaking sound started coming from a nearby chimney. Someone recognized the voice as an owl.

The rescue service that was alerted for help arrived at the manor, but the means ran out. The complaint about the flue noise continued overnight.

The owls have had to climb more often than usual this spring, because they have suffered from a shortage of nests . In April, the rescue service had to rescue two pairs of owls that got lost in the wrong place within a week in Päijät-Hämee.

Two sooty baby owls roost at the bottom of the chimney.

The next day, the message went to Annulii Koponen, a wild animal manager from Riihimäki. Koponen called for help and got in touch with Piia Raunio, who rings birds.

When Raunio arrived on Friday, the task seemed impossible.

  • The chimney of the old mansion is slightly L-shaped, and it turned out to be extremely deep.

Scars or other aids were of no use, because only a small hole led to the chimney.

  • When we got a better picture with the flashlight, there were indeed two baby owls there, and they both screamed, Raunio says.

Manor owner: the owls must be saved The chirping and screeching of the little owls was heartbreaking, Raunio describes.

It seemed that the only way to get the birds out was to dismantle the chimneys.

The rescuers called Inga Chaudhary, the owner of the Tervakoski mansion. She made a decision: the chimney must be dismantled and the owls saved.

  • It didn't even occur to me to leave them there. The chimney can be repaired, says Chaudhary.

A handyman arrived and started work. It was quickly revealed that the chimneys of the old manor had two walls that had to be passed through.

Handyman made an owl-like opening in the chimney. Rescuing the exhausted chicks began to look possible.

The helpers glued the butterfly swatter to the telescope arm and lifted both owls to safety. The video shows the moment when one of the owls gets to safety.

  • There is no way they would have gotten out of there on their own. It felt really good when we got both of them out of there, says Piia Raunio.

Back to nature The animals' torment lasted at least a day. After the ordeal, the birds were in surprisingly good shape, albeit hungry.

  • The wings functioned normally, and there were no bruises, Raunio says.

How did the owls practicing the life of a bird of prey end up in the chimneys of the old mansion?

The chicks weighed about 300 grams. So young chicks don't fly properly yet.

  • However, the manor's chimney is relatively high. Only the little owls know how they got there.

One possibility is that there was a nesting place for owls in the chimney, from which the fledglings fell into the chimney.

The little owls were returned to the wild that same evening.

According to Rauni, nets will be installed in the chimneys of the Tervakoski mansion, so that owls or other animals do not get stuck in the mazes of the old building in the future.

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