[-] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 15 points 3 days ago

If it was 20, maybe even 10 years later, I might have been diagnosed with ADHD as a child. But I wasn't disruptive and I scored extremely well on tests. In the 80s, that overruled pretty much everything else. And when I had trouble later, it was because I was "lazy." This is why I dislike the narrative that "gifted means everything came easily until it didn't and then they failed because they didn't face hardship." I didn't have trouble because I wasn't challenged. I had trouble because I had undiagnosed ADHD and autism, but got slapped with the lazy label early and often. Nothing I did was ever enough, and I was told my whole life that I just wasn't trying hard enough. All because I learned to read before kindergarten and scored in the 99th percentile on standardized testing.

Meanwhile, the 5-6 people from my elementary gifted classes that graduated with me all kept excelling through school and into their careers. Which also contradicts the easy narrative that sprang up around "gifted." Not sure how many of them had concurrent neurodivergencies... but I was the weird one even among the weird kids lol.

[-] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 14 points 3 days ago

I chanced upon the livestream a minute before launch. It didn't get me quite as choked up as Webb, but it was still good to see.

[-] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 7 points 3 days ago

A People's History of the United States is what opened my eyes, quite a few years ago at this point.

[-] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 41 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I just realized that the examples in the meme leave out an important part of the ensemble: calf-high white tube socks with multicolor bands at the top.

If you're gonna rock it, rock it all the way.

[-] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 9 points 4 days ago

It's better to not ask questions sometimes.

backs away slowly

[-] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 45 points 4 days ago

Aside from my slab o'flab making people wish my top had not been cropped, those daddy dukes look like junk-crunchers.

[-] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 7 points 4 days ago

...

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...how did I never see the resemblance before? It's uncanny.

[-] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 22 points 4 days ago

looks at his mom

...yeah it's both. 😒

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I think I'm pre-traumatized just thinking about the implications of this crossover.

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submitted 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) by MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net to c/totk@lemmy.world

JFLD is not going to like this one 😅

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submitted 1 month ago by MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net to c/zelda@lemmy.ml

There's a shovel around here somewhere. Keep your cool. Bury him deep.

Nobody will know.

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