[-] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 3 points 1 month ago

Once a 7 broke down and I had to improvise the 5. Not a good day.

Now which of these is the I have no energy for anything? Also 5?

[-] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 2 points 1 month ago

Thanks for that. Genuinely. I see sentiments like yours so often and I'm very happy for every person for whom this works but it's so dangerous to tell it to randos on the internet with so much certainty when we don't know their story and circumstances. I'm glad people slowly wake up to different people having different familys. Cheers

[-] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 2 points 1 month ago

Tried talking to my family. Only got more trauma. Am very happy when they die and I feel safe. Maybe some sort of compromise works for you but not everyone works the same.

[-] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 2 points 1 month ago

I think the idea many of these right wing people have about family is a very authoritarian one.

[-] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 3 points 2 months ago

They are literally in the EU.

[-] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 4 points 2 months ago

Just worship cats.

[-] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 3 points 2 months ago

Also guess who's also on the queer spectrum? Asexual people!

[-] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 0 points 2 months ago

Somebody should whinge about the unborn being aborted via carpet bombing or similar. I'd like to see the cognitive dissonance.

[-] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 14 points 2 months ago

There is absolutely no car that runs on anything other than oil. NONE 🙄

[-] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 14 points 5 months ago

My exfather deliberately cooked food I didn't like to prove I actually like it and just do it for attention. He's a trained chef. It started when I was three and only stopped when I moved out and stopped eating his meals.

[-] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 3 points 6 months ago

The weirdest thing about this discourse is that people against it somehow seem to be very convinced self diagnosis is exclusively done based on internet memes or something along those lines. I spend years researching, reading multiple books by actual experts, reading scientific publications and hanging out in autism spaces to see if I fit in.

... Almost like somebody who tends to ... Oh idk have a special interest.

And the contra side also dismisses privilege. It's known that autism is under diagnosed in minorities. And things like I'd need to travel 5 hours (one way) multiple times to get a diagnosis. Potentially staying overnight. They'd want to talk to my abusive parents. I'm chronically ill. It's not realistic and I live in a country that has reasonable health care. I wouldn't magically be employable afterwards anyway or have some other tangible benefit. I'd just get somebody in a 15 € white coat tell me what I already know. Or dismiss me because they read me as the wrong gender and yolo autistic people don't have humor.

[-] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 1 points 6 months ago

Same. What a dismissive person.

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It got cold enough to restart her job as a sun worshipper again.

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It's too warm and we both do our best to cope.

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She later complained it was boring and to indoorsy too.

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I just love this video! Not sure if it counts as a meme tho. 😅

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