Thatuserguy

joined 1 year ago
[–] Thatuserguy@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

That's why I read this shit with fan colorings. I think my brain would literally not be able to process what's going on without it

[–] Thatuserguy@lemmy.world 12 points 2 weeks ago

A pigeon wrote this

[–] Thatuserguy@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Was Leonardo Da Vinci truly the first hack fraud of his time?

[–] Thatuserguy@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Words cannot describe how much I hate that quick settings panel. One UI was supposed to be about reachability with how big phones are getting these days. Instead they used the whole screen this go around. Hope Good Lock will let me change it back eventually

[–] Thatuserguy@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

I sure as hell can't say I respect you, but I admire your conviction

[–] Thatuserguy@lemmy.world 22 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] Thatuserguy@lemmy.world 17 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Is Portal technically a shooter game?

[–] Thatuserguy@lemmy.world 19 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Her or the dad?

[–] Thatuserguy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah and again unfortunately it's a mindset thing. If you guys really want to meet people, there are ways to make it happen. Like making stuff like that sounds cool. If it's something that other people like, maybe bring a booth to an event and sell stuff there. You can show off your passions and still hang out with your friends. People who also think it's cool will seek you out and you can make conversation

[–] Thatuserguy@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago (4 children)

It's definitely not a natural feeling, and I totally get what you mean about it feeling like a job. I still struggle with it sometimes myself. I literally have to play mind games with myself to force myself to go out at times.

The unfortunate thing is, if you don't try at all, you're not going to get better. Like I said, it'll be rough at first. You'll feel super uncomfortable and want to run back to the safety of your solitude. But you have to push through it, or you'll end up stuck where you are.

Mental health access is not great, but if you have an option to speak with a therapist, that may be a good first step if you need a helpful push

[–] Thatuserguy@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)

That's awesome dude, and like, you should totally rely on each other where you can to just go out and do stuff you're interested in. Get comfortable with it. Start looking for and suggesting things you want to do and see if you can drag them along. That's what helped me get more comfortable starting to go out more, is just realizing how much stuff is out there I want to check out.

Genuinely the best way to meet other nerdy people is to go out to places where other nerds meet. I'm into like anime and stuff, and I've started forcing myself to go to cons in cosplay by myself, and I've met so many cool people that way because everyone is just so excited to share in the interest together

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