[-] foggy@lemmy.world -1 points 9 hours ago

There is one victim here until we know more.

Stick to child services and dont get into law.

[-] foggy@lemmy.world -5 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

No, I have remained purposely impartial.

Protip, don't try and become a lawyer.

We have no evidence to sway us between "mom was worse than dad" and "mom is a victim". (In fact the available evidence suggests mom was so bad that dads psychopathic character didn't shine through as less safe from Mom than foster care. I've been generous to Mom given this and, again, not going into gender politics of custody battles...).

I understand you're trying to be empathetic. I'm trying to preserve justice for a tortured, dead child. Until we don't know mom wasnt worse, we remain impartial.

You may be right, mom may be a victim. But you may be doing a dead child a severe disservice. Withhold your judgement without facts present, please.

Was Dad's cousin the DA? that changes things. We dont know. And until we do, we examine the available evidence.

Until more evidence is presented publicly, mom is not a victim. That doesn't mean she can't be, and I have left that window open. On purpose.

The known victim is a dead child. We proceed with respect to known victims so as to remain impartial.

[-] foggy@lemmy.world -3 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

I think without knowing why she lost the child, it's not right to call her a victim before the child. For all you know, she was worse than him. Which, stands to reason.

Until I know, there is one victim. Your stance is conjecture. Mine is withholding judgement with reason. I won't go into gender politics of custody and why there are red flags to begin with here; until we know why she lost custody to this (now) clear piece of shit and not to foster care...

There is one victim (dead child). And one culprit (the state).

Should the mother have been a decent mother, drug addicted but loving and providing, not abusive, etc, the there are two victims, and two counts against the state.

I am not going to jump to conclusions, especially when the available evidence (the fact that she lost custody to a deadbeat lunatic) suggests otherwise.

The mother could equally be a perpetrator or a victim. We don't know yet.

[-] foggy@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago

Which victim did I blame?

There is one victim here. Pretty sure I didn't blame the dead child.

[-] foggy@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

What did this mother do to lose a custody battle to this piece of shit? Was foster care not the better option here?? Fuck.

[-] foggy@lemmy.world 32 points 1 day ago

Coughing deliberately in someones face can be battery in many states with a good lawyer.

[-] foggy@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

He'll get beat out by Tucker Carlson or Ivanka Trump in 2028.

[-] foggy@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

Not to mention property taxes have skyrocketed in my area. The rent soar is not yet done soaring. People are just getting hit with these taxes now.

[-] foggy@lemmy.world 37 points 1 day ago

We should start enshrining voters rights in such a way that tampering with them is seen as treasonous.

[-] foggy@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago
[-] foggy@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Ah sorry, I misunderstood.

[-] foggy@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Wait kdeconnect is Foss?! Can I fix the atrocious gui myself?!? 😂

That application rules but it looks like butt on my workstation.

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HONK (youtu.be)
submitted 2 weeks ago by foggy@lemmy.world to c/videos@lemmy.world
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submitted 1 month ago by foggy@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

Acceptable range of answers:

"I mix mustard with mayo"

to

"I emulsify a blend of herbs and mustard seeds and chilis in clarified butter to make and herbaceous fatty hot spread"

Bonus: what's it best on?

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submitted 3 months ago by foggy@lemmy.world to c/hiphopheads@sopuli.xyz

Legend has it, Eyedea wrote these lyrics when he was 14 years old. What the actual fuck.

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submitted 3 months ago by foggy@lemmy.world to c/hiphopheads@sopuli.xyz
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submitted 5 months ago by foggy@lemmy.world to c/gaming@lemmy.ml

This is an appreciation thread. All 4 games are iconic to me. Way underrated.

To me, midnight club is everything need for speed wanted to be. Need for speed had a few hits and many misses. Midnight club was 100% hits. And they aged incredibly. They're still fun as hell.

If you never played and you dig arcade racing games, go play. It's an open city racing game. Variety of racing types, endless challenges, and really great mechanicsi just wish it was as.pophlar as it deserves to be.

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Worse and worse (lemmy.world)
submitted 7 months ago by foggy@lemmy.world to c/chatgpt@lemmy.world

Anyone else getting worse and worse service with chat gpt?

I am getting repetitive incorrect and lazy answers and then rate limited. Idk what I'm even paying for at this point. It's happened the last 5 times I've used it over the last week or so.

Am I alone?

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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by foggy@lemmy.world to c/lemmyconnect@lemmy.ca

Im on a galaxy s22+. This started happening the same time the upvotes downvote buttons started to glitch in the UI which I have also posted about.

This issue is more annoying. When I am mid response, I'll often leave the app to get more accurate info in what I'm trying to say. When I come back to Lemmy, it's all black. Nothing. But my button presses are still registering.

If I go to the app switcher (bottom left android button) thing, and reselect Lemmy, it fixes and the display returns.

But if I react by pressing the back button, I lose my response, I lose the post I was responding to, I sometimes can't even relocate the thread I was in easily.

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voting buttons bug (lemmy.world)
submitted 9 months ago by foggy@lemmy.world to c/lemmyconnect@lemmy.ca

I need to hit the upvotes and downvote buttons twice on the main page.

It will flash it's color as I press on press 1, but then quickly revert. On second press, it behaves normally.

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submitted 10 months ago by foggy@lemmy.world to c/videos@lemmy.world

This guy was something special. Not too many prodigies can improv like Tom Brier. Someone posted Nyan cat the other day and it reminded me of the incredible body of his work.

This guys relative made this YouTube channel when he realized Tom could play anything and turn it into a full length song ad libertum, AND that he was incredibly out of touch with pop culture. Most of the time he is completely unfamiliar with the song being presented to him. You can tell how much he enjoyed this song by his enthusiastic laugh at the end 😊

Guy sadly was in a bad car accident in 2016, and can no longer play. These videos just make me cry now, but God damn does this mean deserve keep being found and revered.

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submitted 1 year ago by foggy@lemmy.world to c/lemmyconnect@lemmy.ca

Right now there are three feeds available to me, that, as far as I can tell, I have minimal control over.

It'd be rad if there was a way to add feeds, and for each feed, be able to manually select communities I'd like to see.

This would be great for news, porn, sports, pornography, adult content, and so much more.

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Blocking behavior (lemmy.world)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by foggy@lemmy.world to c/lemmyconnect@lemmy.ca

Right now if I block a user, it can disconnect my user within the app from portions of my user presence.

i.e. if I respond to a user in good faith, they respond in bad faith, I block them, and I want to revisit my good faith response in context, I am unable to do so via my profile. If the person I block is the top level comment, I am unable to view any content created within that comment tree because the top level comment is blocked.

I bring this up as Lemmy.world defederates from hexbear, and it has felt like there might be some brigading going on in relation to that.

This might be intentional, or not. Just voicing an opinion that I wish blocking a user would just make all of that users posts show as [blocked] and their username show as [blocked], with an option to temporarily display the blocked content, but still be unable to interact without physically unblocking them. If the "block" was more cosmetic and less functional, it wouldn't disconnect existing functionality (like trying to view my own posts in context).

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submitted 1 year ago by foggy@lemmy.world to c/lemmyconnect@lemmy.ca

I can only see a very small portion of my inbox when I go to "View All". The oldest reply I'm able to see is 23 hrs old. I've been receiving replies for about a month.

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