gingerbrat

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[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

No, it does not sound like you're making it about yourself. Thank you for telling me how you relate to what I wrote, and I'm glad that at least the discovery of your application history made your parents stop. I only doubt that my family will see it this way, since there's no "papertrail" for online applications. I hope they'll at least stop asking about it once I get any job.

I will try to do that, as best as I can. Thank you again for your kind words, and might I add, the pillow is a good alternative if no friends are at hand.

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

A brilliant idea! I hope it's the extended cut?

Oh, favorite episodes is hard to tell, but from what I've rewatched so far, I'd say it's The Devil in The Dark (s01e26).

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

Omg how cool! I'll have a longer look at the unity engine later, and while I don't understand much of these engines, learning never hurt. Enjoy yourself!

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Anytime, friend, and thank you for understanding as well. I can't properly reply bc otherwise I'll probably start crying meow-hug

And I know you can work through your brain worms just as much as I can, and have to. We're on a good track, knowing what we have to change about ourselves, and I do feel encouraged, knowing I'm not the only one trying to be kinder to myself, others, and still learning so much about everything.

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

We are, comrade, we are meow-hug

I think I'm gonna re-watch some of the original Star Trek series. Out of curiosity, what games are you playing?

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago

I think I know what to put on my wishlist for my birthday Care-Comrade

Happy educationally radical reading comrade!

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago

We're the same person in different time lines. meow-hug

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

Thank you comrade, I appreciate you and your words meow-hug

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

I can only try to imagine how furious you must have been. At the same time, it's so easy to laugh about parents/people of that age group, because of what you said, that a lot of self-control goes into not ridiculing them for their archaic beliefs.

Judging by your phrasing I'm gonna assume you managed to get a job eventually, and I am happy you got out of that seemingly inescapable pit. Let's just say, should we ever get in a position similar to that of your parent, I know both of us will be wise enough not to talk down to the next generation.

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Thank you, it means a lot to hear that, and I've seen it happen with other friends too. I've always been something of a "therapy friend" to most people, but really, out of my own free will, so still people tell me how they're doing and if I have any advice. Thus it makes it so relieving when someone, upon reading/hearing what I'm going through, just says "I'm with you, you're not alone". It means the world to me, and I'm grateful for it.

Concerning your rantI think you have every right to talk about this, in this thread as well, and I wish I could do more than express my sympathies, like you have done for me. Stay strong, I believe there are better times ahead for both you and me, as well. What I can tell you, tho, is that every single person I've ever heard say they thought they were "too annoyingly high energy, too needy" are never the ones who should be saying that. The people who are really needy don't acknowledge that, just as much as those who are actually too high energy (and if you can be too high energy is something I find debatable as well). I firmly believe you should never try to represent as something stereotypically assigned to a gender. Rather, try to represent yourself as you feel comfortable, be yourself, and the person(s) who are actually interested in you will cross your way. This counts for both friends and potential romantic partners. I hope this helps, at least a little bit.

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