[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 1 points 2 days ago

What year was this made?

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 28 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Yeah, the problem with self-inserting into D&D characters is that you get personally affected by what happens to them and how they're treated. It's called "bleed". Plus, if it's a self-insert, you probably play them not too dissimilarly from how you act in real life, and they're probably used to referring to that personality that they're familiar with as a whatever pronoun they know it by.

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 8 points 2 weeks ago

It's just you trying to break out of the Matrix, but you keep waking up back inside it.

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 12 points 3 weeks ago

So THAT'S why it's always so high-quality.

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 4 points 3 weeks ago

No suggestions. I just wanna know what the answer ends up being that fixes it for you.

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 2 points 3 weeks ago

No, literally. Sauce?

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 16 points 3 weeks ago

"You're all assholes too? Psh, then why am I pretending not to be?!"

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

As somebody with social anxiety, it sounds like your MIL also has social anxiety. Hence, the constant need to have to reinforce that other people can stand her. I had to train this out of myself in my late teens/early 20s.

I know it's annoying to deal with, but showing a little compassion and simply affirming that you're exhausted but her relationship with you is secure will go a long way for her. She'll probably get used to you being quiet around her too.

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 49 points 1 month ago

I think it's really ironic when I see these memes, because it highlights how our own heads will highlight the things that grate against our own nerves.

I assume everybody that this resonates with resonates with it because they themselves have been told to go against their nature and wanna know why the other side hasn't.

I'm the other end of that spectrum. I promise you, people told me all that. "Mind your peers. Share the space. Stop being...so much. Learn to be comfortable in silences. What can't you shut the fuck up?"

I have autism, so I didn't understand why I was always screwing it up. I also hated hearing, "Be yourself. People will like you for who you are," because I found that when I stopped trying to mask, I'd immediately hear all of the above all over again.

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago

Is the writing in this picture just so tiny that I can't see it??

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 24 points 1 month ago

Annoyed that the person in the third post is pretending to be the person in the first two posts.

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I'm also lactose intolerant, but the devil doesn't sleep just cause I stopped fightin' him.

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99% of my ideas for what to do with friends have to do with "we hang, but at a bar".

I've started to consider suggesting aquarium trips, outdoor movie nights, etc, but then I decided it might be nice to chit chat about it with y'all because I wanna hear what y'all like. Especially things you didn't expect to be as pleasant as they were but became a regular thing.

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