[-] kajko@feddit.nu 2 points 6 months ago

I want a switch that makes me able to not be perceived.

[-] kajko@feddit.nu 23 points 6 months ago

I joked with my mom about how everything started hurting after 25, and she was baffled because for her the aches also only started after 50.

[-] kajko@feddit.nu 3 points 7 months ago

Yeah a couple of months ago we were casually doing flips and rolls on fresh snow and rolling down snow piles while laughing.

Occasionally climb up trees for no reason, other times to retrieve geocaches (treasure hunt!)

Last summer kicking ball in the garden with no purpose (but with beer and BBQ)

[-] kajko@feddit.nu 11 points 7 months ago

Things go viral sometimes and it snowballs. The more famous you are, the more famous you can become. She's also good enough at being an entertainer to keep riding the wave of increased fame, with added resources the bigger she gets.

[-] kajko@feddit.nu 23 points 7 months ago

Is he using a smartphone?

[-] kajko@feddit.nu 2 points 7 months ago

I do feel like this at all times. :)

[-] kajko@feddit.nu 3 points 7 months ago

I second telling her!

And I'm also one for firm squeezes instead. Light touches make me overstimulated. All the light touches for my partner instead!

[-] kajko@feddit.nu 9 points 7 months ago

I'm 37, but I have no clue what this is.

[-] kajko@feddit.nu 1 points 7 months ago

I'm not judging you right now, just curious. Does it also feel that (gay) men immediately sexualize other men? Do you do that? Did you feel it was done to you?

Was talking to my partner now (he's a man, I'm not). Wondered if hearing straight men objectifying women when you're yourself not into women sounds a lot more jarring and unreasonable, precisely because you're in a way "sober" about women.

I'm not saying men don't have a huge damaging influence growing up, that a lot can only break with a lot of effort, but with your brother's friends it sounds also like a bunch of horny teenagers posturing to each other. Not ideal behavior and not always harmless, but far from making men emotionless hole-seeking creatures.

[-] kajko@feddit.nu 5 points 7 months ago

You feel how you feel but just wondering why this feels like such a weird thing to ask for? My own partner told me he enjoys that kind of light touch (also sensorially rather than sexually) and I try to do it whenever I think about it, and it makes me happy that he's enjoying it, and it's not like it's a struggle for me.

[-] kajko@feddit.nu 3 points 7 months ago

I wish I had the kind of friends I could do things like these with, looks like a lot of fun!

[-] kajko@feddit.nu 10 points 7 months ago

I see them for what they are.

You are a man, do you see yourself that way too?

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