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How do you talk to people? (lemmygrad.ml)
submitted 13 hours ago by borschtisgarbo@lemmygrad.ml to c/askchapo@hexbear.net
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I'm a neurodivergent, asocial person. Always have been. Though i still have had a few friends during my life. I managed to get by for a while with just the 2-3 people I talk to, but recently I've started to get really lonely. The way i've made friends in the past has been someone approaching me, not the other way around though. I don't know how to make friends/acquaintances with other people on my own. Me growing up with the internet probably played a role in my lack of real life social skills, i'm guessing

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[โ€“] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 8 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, that's true, but it's still frustrating, right? Though the easy solution is to just note down everything you want to say, and ask if you can get to your points on the topics that the rest of the group has already moved past. Doing this is maybe less "smooth", but people are generally not so rude and unreasonable as to say "you only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow, the opportunity (to share your opinion on a specific topic) comes once in a lifetime, yo"

[โ€“] GarbageShoot@hexbear.net 6 points 9 hours ago

That's fair, yeah