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How do you get over a crush? (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 week ago by LibsEatPoop@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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It is kinda ruining my life lmao. I have never felt this strongly for anyone. When we talk, I can ride that high for days. But then she gives me (what I perceive as) the cold shoulder and the depression I feel... boy. It's been like this for months. I cannot go on, man.

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[–] LibsEatPoop@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Why did you come to that conclusion? I do want to but I want to do that in person not over text and I’m also scared. I want to ask her to coffee or brunch or something first but then I don’t know to tell her what I’m feeling. I’m just confused.

[–] Sulvor@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago

The longer the relationship stays like this, the longer you will fantasize and create a perfect image of her/the relationship in your head, which will be damaging to the actual relationship and actual person should the relationship happen