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I've read this three times and still honestly have no idea what you're saying and how it applies to the question.
The question asks what kinky stuff we did not consent to. I'm positive being violated applies.
No, that wasn't the question at all... And your post had no kinks in it
The question addressed "kinky fucks", it never said "talk about a time you were in the process of being kinky". That's what I was going by, that and the interpretation that "kinky fucks" referred to people who got out of a situation that involved a sexual encounter. You know, like how on AskReddit people often stylize who they're addressing.
Jesus, did people just think the "remember the human" rule from Reddit was worth doing away with when migrating to Lemmy?
No one was being uncivil...
To be so finicky over unspoken conditions of a question isn’t exactly what I’d call civil.
Exactly.
Is the R word Rectalingus?
Don't I wish.
What's the R word?
Carnal knowledge of another person's body by force or without consent
Thanks
Oh shit! Hello fellow Rochesterian
Hello. I'm not in Rochester currently but I do visit a lot. How was the Avon corn festival?
Forget it, I'm removing what I said here if peoples' norms are so needy that they can't be sensitive to an anecdote about violation on a post that clearly asks people what they did not consent to. I screenshotted the answer and will give the screenshot to anyone who asks. This place is like the new Imgur.
What did you post to begin with? No judgements, just curious
Basically the middle part of the anecdote I explained here, as I had no way of knowing OP here (who hasn’t stepped in) was talking only about things we noped to in the context of seeking out kinky activities (despite not fully specifying that) and/or exclusively by people who are kinky in the specific sense that they do that for a living. When I read the title, I read it in the stylized way you might on AskReddit (maybe don’t start off a question with “kinky fucks”) which I also had come from and didn’t expect so much sidestepping for such a thing opened up about (Rectalingus? Really?).
Eh, I read it with the same meaning that you did, so it's not just you. Hope you're doing better nowadays!
Thanks