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[–] Dadifer@lemmy.world 19 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Is it illegal for women to be topless?

[–] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 23 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah. That seems sexist.

Free the nipple.

[–] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world -5 points 13 hours ago (6 children)

Genuine question, how is it sexist? Is their no acknowledgment of biological differences between men and women as a general rule (trans issues being more of an exception to the rule)? We acknowledge differences in general in regards to sports, bathrooms, fitting rooms, the way clothes are made, people’s consumption of pornography, magazines and media. Why on this point are we ignoring that all of those things ls are real and happen and pretending there’s no difference?

[–] ToastedPlanet@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

It is sexist because you're treating them differently based on arbitrary cultural standards. Why are you pretending made up social constructs are real? We shouldn't be consistently sexist. We should want equality for all.

[–] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Ok. So if it’s based on arbitrary cultural standards that are made up, wouldn’t the new version just be a different made up social construct that we would pretend is real as well? Except we would just be pretending that boobs aren’t real? Or have no relevance

[–] Manticore@lemmy.nz 9 points 8 hours ago

Men and women both have nipples. The difference is that women might need to pull them put to feed a baby. If we want to treat them differently, should it not be reversed?

[–] Dadifer@lemmy.world 15 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

The only reason to cover women's nipples is because the gender in power may have hormonal changes that they are unwilling to control.

[–] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world -3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I’m sorry I’m not following. What’s the “gender in power?” Is that societal or the individual?

[–] Dadifer@lemmy.world 8 points 9 hours ago

The patriarchy

[–] LastOneSitting@lemmy.wtf 14 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Because the sexualization of the female nipple is the only reason it is illegal to bare it in public. There is no universal or biological reason to ban it, just a cultural conditioning.

[–] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Yes, I guess what I’m asking is are we pretending that this “conditioning” isn’t a real thing? I also read recently (sorry if this is wrong) that there was a study done on arousal of breasts between societies where they are covered up vs where they are not. It found the level of arousal remained consistent.

[–] HiddenLychee@lemmy.world 4 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

If women everywhere suddenly felt that men showing their faces was arousing, should they be required to cover that too?

[–] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I’m sorry but I don’t feel that’s a reasonable hypothetical. Society would be so different in so many ways if that were true that the time line would look completely different, who know we probably wouldn’t have made it to now. And yes hypothetically if this did happen all of a sudden there would be lots of calls to do something about the new situation

[–] splendoruranium@infosec.pub 8 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (2 children)

Yes, I guess what I’m asking is are we pretending that this “conditioning” isn’t a real thing? I also read recently (sorry if this is wrong) that there was a study done on arousal of breasts between societies where they are covered up vs where they are not. It found the level of arousal remained consistent.

Why wouldn't having to deal with that arousal be the problem and responsibility of the aroused instead of, by default and preemtively, limiting the rights of any prospective and involuntary "arousee" in existence?

[–] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

If arousal isn’t a real thing and it’s the fault of the person being aroused, would that suggest total nudity should be ok as well?

[–] ToastedPlanet@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 7 hours ago

Some of these users are unironically repeating rape cultural word for word and in this case with the add on of "I'm just asking questions". Thanks for sticking it to them. =)

[–] Nounka@lemmy.world 9 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Why should a nipple be hidden only if it is a female one. Why would man have the right to walk without t-shirts and woman be punished for the same walk?

Yet imo it should be the other way. Males need to cover up to. Lets see how fast they start complaining.

[–] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

I think there’s less of a need for men to cover up. That not to say I don’t agree with your point entirely. While shirtless men do seem to arouse women and gay men, correct me if if wrong, it’s seems like it’s more of a overall thing, where with women the arousal is mostly centred around the breasts themselves and the nipples.

I think it’s also more appropriate to say feminine breasts, I know this opinion can vary person to person but most people can agree man boobs generally don’t excite people, it’s the muscle and tone that women find attractive. This can apply to feminine breasts but I think it’s generally more accepted that they are more likely to arouse or at least be interesting.

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 9 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

There are differences, but there is no need for different rules.

Can you, or are you willing to, say outright, why it should be illegal?

[–] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world -4 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

Because I think having breasts is different to not having them and that human arousal and disgust (may be a strong word) is real and that as a general rule it’s appropriate and even beneficial to exclude the extremes of these things from day to day life unless the individual wants to opt in. I suppose a line has to be drawn somewhere and given that there is a real reaction across most of society it’s a reasonable place to draw it.

[–] groet@feddit.org 7 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

So because men are more horny than women, women should habe fewer freedoms?

And what about tribal societies where everybody is bare chested all the time? Do you believe all nen there are horny all the time because the See female breasts every day?

[–] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

I can see this point, I’m just not sure going back to what is generally considered a primitive culture is really worth the trouble to get there. We don’t live like that any more. Can we at least beat the billionaires first?