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Is it actually possible to change your personality (lemmy.world)

submitted 11 months ago by WalkableProgrammer@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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This isn’t meant to be a negative post. I wanted to tweak how I handle some things and have gotten better but I it made me think.

Could you turn someone 360 completely? Like from a freak to a mighty, a chad to a chud, a person to a stealers fan?

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[-] EnglishMobster@lemmy.world 16 points 11 months ago

I mean, in the late 2000s I was kind of a shitty person. But in like 2014 I realized I was a piece of shit and started to work on myself.

I stopped basing my personality on how many girls I could land and started just focusing on myself and not on relationships. I spent 2 years guiding myself to a much better place, and then in 2016 I met my current fiance.

[-] SocialEngineer56@notdigg.com 3 points 11 months ago

After all that growth - you’re still focusing on how you landed a girl /s

Congrats and good luck in your future marriage!

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