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I don't mean to unnecessarily gender this discussion. Gender here doesn't matter. But I'm going to use gendered words as they fit the context. I want everyone's opinion.

My dad died from bronchial cancer two days before my 12th birthday. I had to learn how to be a 'man' from my ill mother.

What I want to know is, if you had to import some wisdom to preteen me, about the fundamentals of life, what would it be?

I've barely learned to shave (and prefer a beard anyway). What can you teach me Hexbear?

I'm 32 by the way. I'm just curious.

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[–] Feinsteins_Ghost@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Watch out when you zip up.
Be kind to others. Never be needlessly cruel.
Take it easy, life isnt a sprint.
Dont be afraid to stop and smell the daisies.
One spray of cologne only, please.
Learn how to change your oil. Learn how to fix a flat so you can get off the freeway offramp safely.

I dont really have anything earth shattering because im mostly just a dumb guy myself.