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I'll start: if they have hobbies it's a green flag for sure, doubly so if their hobbies are outlets for creativity.

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[–] linearchaos@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Compatibility:

  • Political Leaning
  • Individuals Rights
  • Children
  • truthfulness/openness

If any of those don't look solid green to you out of the gate, it's an absolute no-go. They don't have to be one way or another, but if you can't openly and comfortably agree on those things, you're pretty screwed eventually.