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I'll start: if they have hobbies it's a green flag for sure, doubly so if their hobbies are outlets for creativity.

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[โ€“] Damaskox@kbin.social 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That comes to mind now:

  • Tries not to argue and start fights but rather tries to understand and cooperate with constructive criticism
  • Speaks up her mind if something is on the matter that has anything to do with me
  • Loves cuddling and sex
  • Enjoys at least some of the things I do and joins in
  • Shares at least some of the things she does
  • Offers support when wished for/needed

The same things I either do already or try to do.

[โ€“] Javi_in_4k@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

This is a good list. And a lot more meaningful and effective than "likes the same things I like"