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I've been communicating with a person online for like a month now and we are similar people. But I've only talked to them asynchronously. Has anyone been in a situation like this? (hexbear.net)

submitted 11 months ago by jesse@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net

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I guess I would like to communicate with them synchronously. Idk I'm super bad at human connection so I'm not sure how one would ask, this could be an exercise in self-improvement as much as anything. Any suggestions?

I have no idea what gender they are or any details about their personal life, and I guess that's part of the reason why they are so alluring? It's almost like I'm talking to someone who gets the same amount of fired up as me about the dumbest shit and the only other people I know who are like that are my best friend and his wife

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[–] Infamousblt@hexbear.net 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

You looking for like a phone call? A text message? Honestly the best thing to do in any relationship most of the time when you have a need is to ask for it

[–] jesse@hexbear.net 5 points 11 months ago

Yeah maybe a phone call or something but it is a bit strange because I don't have this person's number lol

I just made a post on some obscure forum and they messaged me and we got to chatting