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probably weep that I'll never get to experience a loving relationship for like two weeks, followed by five and a half months of laying in bed waiting to die after realizing I wasn't gonna experience one anyways.
At least find a hobby bro, there are other things in life
Agreed, happily single for over 8 years here. So much time to myself to do what I enjoy.
I also am a bachelor by choice. Long term relationships (even great ones) are a chore that you lose parts of yourself to, for better or worse. I've discovered I'm much more healthy, balanced, and happy without that dynamic.
I already have hobbies, if you're suggesting that adding stamp collecting (as an example) to the roster totally makes up for being treated like a doormat, then I shudder to think about the depth of your interpersonal relationships
Bro you just said you would spend your last 6 months weeping because you can't get a relationship and you're criticizing my relationships for telling you there's other things to do in life?
I think you need help man
And you assumed that someone who's lonely must not have any hobbies, and seem to believe hobbies are a replacement for human connection.
Get fucked, cunt.