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Do you guys have any incels you know personally? (hexbear.net)
submitted 3 months ago by FearsomeJoeandmac@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net
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There's some guy I talk to who believes the theory that the top 20 percent of dudes get 80% of women, and that because he doesn't have a brad pitt jaw and isn't 6' +, he might as well just hate women because they'll never like him anyways.

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[–] robot_dog_with_gun@hexbear.net 21 points 3 months ago (1 children)

i don't want to self-harm with the apps, and i'm unemployed. haven't talked to anyone in years, is that voluntary or involuntary?

[–] SkingradGuard@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Volcel

[–] robot_dog_with_gun@hexbear.net 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

doesn't really feel like i'm exercising any agency

[–] FearsomeJoeandmac@hexbear.net 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Self harm with the apps how? You get literally zero matches or some shit?

[–] robot_dog_with_gun@hexbear.net 1 points 3 months ago

doing a bunch of work at social bullshit to subject myself to a psychological torture machine I have no control over and get no productive feedback from when ignored or rejected sounds like a really bad time. It's ~~exactly th-~~ literally worse than job seeking (which is bad enough to make me cw suicidal) because hiring someone is profitable and matching off users loses customers.