Noted! I'll make a point of showing that when I have a chance, if someone else doesn't beat me to it.
Taking a break from Romanzo Criminale la serie to show Cidade de Deus/City of God (2002) tonight. 1730 EDT/2130 UTC/2330 CET. Join us!
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God forbid women do anything
o7 comrade ty!
It's unfortunately not uncommon for people to find your transitioning cute or endearing or positive in the abstract but once they have to acknowledge that you are in fact who you are and you expect them to respect that, fall off like that. You're cute to them as a pet, as a toy, but not as a fully realized human being.
Transitioning really put into contrast who my friends were and who tolerated me so long as I was useful to them somehow. I keep my friends close, anyone who tries to put a disclaimer on their support of trans people - of transfems in particular - can fuck right off. I don't have time for that shit.
If this is a consequence of being raised AMAB I wish all the creepy cishet men on earth who I've had the displeasure of interacting with would have internalized it. If anything, the performance of hegemonic masculinity expects that you be brazen, threatening, indifferent towards the consequences of expressing your desire. And to show any hesitation is blood in the water.
It's a queer experience (ask cis queer people about it!) and it's a neurodivergent experience. It's an EMPOC experience too! It's nothing to do with what a doctor decided when you were born however long ago, though. It's a consequence of existing outside of hegemonic conceptualizations of masculinity.
What do you use the algorithm for, even? I don't stray outside the little bubble I have curated for myself on my timeline because there are horrors beyond my understanding out there. And a lot of transmisogyny. I just want to look at lovely landscape photography and talk to other weird communist trans women tyvm
I sent my girlfriend my cutest flannel in the mail and it finally showed up a few days ago. There's a package somewhere in transit to me right now from her and I could not be more excited for it to arrive.
cw alcohol
She got white girl drunk (drank one beer) last night and couldn't stop telling me she loves me. She's usually a little bit more reserved than that. In Cerivisia Veritas, or however the saying goes. I'm usually the gushier of the two of us but she had me outclassed last night! So sweet, so gay, so grateful to have her in my life.
It took me 20+ years to finally work up to doing something about my gender but everything that has transpired since I transitioned (it's been a while!) has made me more convinced every day that I did the right thing. I had no idea life could be this good.
Awesome news! I'm applying for mine shortly too, while I can. I've got places to go.
Doubling your commute time and paying that much more in rent, for me, cancel out any benefit there might be from the living arrangement. You can put the money you save in rent aside to visit them with the extra ±5 hours a week you have staying where you are. Is there any other reason you'd have to move?
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5 minutes to Cidade de Deus/City of God (2002), c'mon over to blorp! https://blorp.bot.nu:8443/o/visual_cuisine
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