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[–] Character_Locked@lemm.ee 74 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My favourite part is that these are the and people that go around calling others "snowflakes" and telling people to get thicker skins. But everything triggers them. And try arguing with them or insulting them in the same way that they freely insult everyone else and they'll either be crying about how persecuted against they are (as opposed to groups of people that are literally losing their rights and used as political scapegoats daily) or they want to get aggressive and fight.

They're absolute fragile, insecure babies and it shows with the way they can't handle men having backsides or think they need to shave their eyelashes off to be more 'manly'.

[–] Mora@pawb.social 27 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Or being offended by "Body 1/Body 2". Something most will literally see for less than 30 seconds in character creation.

[–] Character_Locked@lemm.ee 25 points 1 week ago

This is one that gets me the most. People complaining about having options in character creation in an RPG. That boils down what these people are really about though. They don't want options or variety, they want everything to cater to and revolve around them at all times. That's why they act like white men are being erased from existence when 1 in every 10 superhero movies have a female lead actor.

[–] zurohki@aussie.zone 48 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Gotta hide that ass or conservatives might realise something about themselves.

[–] HexadecimalSky@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

reminds me. wasn't there a rabbi who when the argument of beards came up he said, yeah, because men without beards give me impure thoughts, and everyone was, what, I think that says more about you then beards?

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 45 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

They hate us cuz they ain't us

bubble butt supremacy.

[–] NoneOfUrBusiness@fedia.io 38 points 1 week ago

Man I wish I had this much free time. Also somebody's gay and in denial.

[–] TallonMetroid@lemmy.world 30 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Jokes on you, I run around with clothing turned off, so all his bits are dangling in the wind!

[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Baaaaalls in the wind
All we are is balls in the wind

[–] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 5 points 1 week ago

Saaaame oooooold schloooooonnng...

[–] ObstreperousCanadian@lemmy.ca 30 points 1 week ago

I played the entire game and can't say I ever noticed Astarion's butt. These people should evaluate their obsessions.

[–] Sidyctism2@discuss.tchncs.de 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

guess they turned asstarion into... tarion

[–] Luffy879@lemmy.ml 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That looks less flat and more like he shat himself

[–] jbk@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 1 week ago
[–] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

For some reason they removed the chaps(?), which makes it look like they made the pants tighter on his legs, so it's secretly gay

[–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

They massacred my boy...

[–] coacoamelky@lemm.ee 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago

yea...

~yea...~

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

How did they get it so flat

[–] Truscape@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago

FR looks like a fallout 4 jumpsuit lol

[–] amino@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago

Astarion after undergoing devampification (conversion therapy)

[–] vzqq@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago

sigh If you must…