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Inb4 I don't

I'm not asking if you do it, I'm asking people how you do it

Edit: sorry I forgot I posted this and came back to a bunch of answers. I have a torn something in my shoulder that no MRI has been able to find for 20 years so I can't just reach it. I myself use a long cloth, but I don't really like it so I was curious what other people did.

Also, I don't wash my back every shower, but I do get pretty sweaty sometimes and feel like I just have to

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[–] morphballganon@mtgzone.com 7 points 22 hours ago

My hands.

I suspect at some point I'll switch to a brush with a handle.

[–] JadenSmith@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I have a small hammer I use, to lightly chip away at the wall tiles to provide both exfoliation, a back scratcher, and acupuncture all in one.

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 1 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I can't tell if you're being serious or not

[–] JadenSmith@sh.itjust.works 2 points 8 hours ago

You can never be too serious about skincare.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

~~I put liquid soap in the palm of my left hand. Turn one the water and put my right hand under, then let water roll off into my left hand. Turn off the water. Wash hands without wasting water. Turn it on to rinse.~~

~~There's a guy at my office who would let the water run for the entire five minutes that he brushed his teeth after lunch. I got so sick of it that I printed a sign and taped it to the wall. It said not to waste water and to turn it off while brushing. I haven't seen him doing it since, but I also haven't seen him at all since. I hope he saw it before someone took it down.~~

Edit: misread the title.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 20 hours ago
[–] Crabhands@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Japanese exfoliating wash cloth

[–] beirdobaggins@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Only the Salux brand though. I've gotten knock off ones that were way too smooth.

I got long arms and an exfoliating luffa. I just wash every part. There's no part of my back that I can't reach.

[–] orgrinrt@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I’m surprised how few answers actually include actually practical and helpful tools such as a bathing brush with a good long grip to reach just about everywhere. Is this a cultural thing? I swear I’ve seen them in British tv series at the very least, so I know for sure these are a common thing at least in the Nordics and the UK.

But I mean it’s the best. Really gets the old dead skin cells and other stuff off, and the blood flowing. The bristles are a bit rough, but that just makes it that much more pleasurable, you really feel it!

Edit:

These things, surely they are mostly everywhere?

My wife has one, I don't like to use it, it's too aggressive for me.

I can reach my back with my arms. To get the spot right between my shoulders I have to reach up and come down from the top with one arm, while using my other hand to grab my elbow and pull it to push my hand low enough to get it more effectively.

[–] warbond@lemmy.world 87 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Reach as far as I can, use trickle-down soapenomics to take care of the rest.

[–] NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago

This is the one case where I think the trickledown effect works like a charm

[–] kruhmaster@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Part of your back isn't scrubbed.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 20 hours ago

Works for me. Nobody screamed at me for smelling at this spot yet.

[–] mienshao@lemm.ee 40 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] GJdan@programming.dev 3 points 1 day ago

Eventually, yes.

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago

I get my partner to do it for me!

[–] kaeurenne@lemmy.kadaikupi.space 35 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

I use my hands to wash my back. You?

[–] Kongar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 2 days ago

Same - I can reach all parts. If I couldn’t, I’d grab a something on a stick.

[–] Sibbo@sopuli.xyz 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Same here. Guess OP is not that flexible.

[–] lol_idk@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Sibbo@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 day ago

Understandable

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I dunno. I used to be flexible as hell, but was also too damn broad across the shoulders to get everywhere. That was even before I started lifting seriously; lifting just made the area I couldn't reach bigger.

Somewhere around 16 I hit a spurt and suddenly couldn't reach a zone between my shoulder blades. It was maybe hand sized. In my twenties, it was about an inch or two bigger, but I could still do all the stretches fully before lifting, and that included shoulder stretches where I could end up almost flat with my arms behind me.

Nowadays, I'm just old and stiff, and can't scrub anything right on my back.

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[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Long ago I planted a colony of sentient microbes there, and bade them subdue the area and keep it free of vermin. They have tamed the wilderness and established a sophisticated, well ordered civilization. Although recently I have been feeling a lot warmer.

[–] selkiesidhe@lemm.ee 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Bend the arm the ouchholyfuckalmostreach way. Scrub. Then bend the arm the owfuckalmostjesuschrist way. Scrub again. Easy!

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I rub my bar of soap on it and then wash it off. Do you not?

[–] xzot746@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

With someone else's front?

[–] d41@startrek.website 19 points 2 days ago

I use a scrubbing brush with a long handle.

[–] dumbass@leminal.space 17 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I got one of these things

Works pretty good and you can put some force down and really get that back nice and clean.

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[–] MadMadBunny@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I don’t. The mind-controlling alien parasite attached to my spine doesn’t let me when I try reaching for it…

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I got a prehensile penis.

[–] CaptDust@sh.itjust.works 15 points 2 days ago (2 children)
[–] AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

Doesn't the towel get wet?

[–] judgyweevil@feddit.it 11 points 2 days ago (4 children)
[–] iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Might be a regional thing. Where I'm from, that is indeed a loofah. Synthetic, yes, but still called a loofah.

[–] judgyweevil@feddit.it 7 points 2 days ago

I bet that the number of people that think this is biodegradable because it's a loofah is > 0

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[–] scytale@lemmy.zip 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

A belt-like loofa that you hold on both ends and pull from side to side.

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[–] xylol@leminal.space 12 points 2 days ago

Right hand goes high, left hand goes low, then you criss cross apple sauce

[–] HiddenLayer555@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago

I mean, I assume the water running down my body when I shower is good enough? Can't imagine my back of all places getting so dirty that I need to scrub it.

[–] DrFistington@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

I'll be honest... Not very well. Pretty much squeeze my loofa at the top of my back so the suds run down, then rinse. No backne or any other issues though

[–] Nemo@midwest.social 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I just reach back there. I have these crazy things on my arm called "elbows".

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[–] Aradia@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago

I always wash my back very happily and with a good amount of water.

[–] galoisghost@aussie.zone 7 points 2 days ago

Lather up my partners front and get them to slide up and down on my back. Then it’s my turn!

[–] hexthismess@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

I use a brush on a long stick.

Set the showerhead to "Power Blast" and hope and pray.

Big ol' brush.

I also have long scrubby things. Don't know what they're made of, but I think nylon. Basically really long washcloths with a rough texture and strings to hold onto while scrubbing. But the brush does a better job, so I usually only use the cloth ones when I'm away from home because they pack easier.

That's assuming I can't con my wife into getting soaked just to stand there scrubbing me down for a half hour while I continually say "yah, right there, a little harder. Now to the left, oh yeah, that's great, a little more. Now up some, fucking perfect, you're awesome. Now down a little again" and so on until she throws the scrubber at me.

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