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Any techniques or anecdotes youโ€™d be willing to share?

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[โ€“] SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Well use a medium where you communicate better. Many can articulate better with the written word. Try continuing the conversation over text or email or whatever.

[โ€“] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 18 hours ago

Pro tip: if you own your mistakes and never try to hide or diminish your responsibility, it's like a secret weapon to diffuse blame. People will accept that you made a mistake and just move on.

[โ€“] reallykindasorta@slrpnk.net 5 points 21 hours ago

Flow charts or bullet lists as visual aid. The higher position your interlocutor is in the simpler you should try to keep your point. If you need their input on a project only bring them one A vs B decision at a time.