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[–] DigDoug@lemmy.world 45 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Senseless@feddit.org 11 points 2 weeks ago

Ladies and Gentlemen, boys and girls, we have a winner. Close this thread.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 39 points 2 weeks ago

I scroll Lemmy.

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 31 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I watch birds. I'm not even that old. But birds can be interesting.

[–] theskyisfalling@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 2 weeks ago

Dude. I started feeding birds in my garden around 3 years ago, I wasnt even that interested in birds, now I have a shit load of regulars and I love watching those little bastards.

[–] kratoz29@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Really? how so?

Honest question.

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 6 points 2 weeks ago

You can see the different personalities between species and between individual birds. They are often smarter than you would think.

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 3 points 2 weeks ago

The same way anything can be interesting.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 23 points 2 weeks ago

Sort Lemmy by new

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 19 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Games. Board or video.

Usually with an old TV series in the background.

And Kitty time. Can't forget them!

[–] return2ozma@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I've recently started watching Columbo and it's actually a great series to have on in the background.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

We're at the last season of Malcom in the Middle.

How have I never seen this until now?! Such a good show, and as we were about halfway through the series, they announced a reunion season coming out soon. (Just like every other show, but this one I'm actually excited to see) Talk about perfect timing!

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 2 weeks ago

Lately…eat out of boredom. I’ve been trying to curb it, but not succeeding. I’ve got 8 days off starting tomorrow. Not looking good for my waistline. 😔

[–] Kissaki@feddit.org 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I never feel bored. The closest, I guess, is feeling lost and not motivated for anything or stressed and jumpy between things.

In those cases or more when I don't "have anything to do" in general, I open Lemmy, or YouTube, or watch anime or some series, read manga, or watch documentaries. Depending on motivation and mood I open games or do open source or personal project work. Sometimes open specific news or test websites, or my RSS feed accumulator. Or do whatever else is open to do.

[–] Cocodapuf@lemmy.world 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You mean besides masturbate?

[–] mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

perhaps they take that as a given and mean 'after'

[–] Montagge@lemmy.zip 12 points 2 weeks ago

I don't remember the last time I was bored lol

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 8 points 2 weeks ago
[–] Libb@piefed.social 7 points 2 weeks ago

Being bored is not a bad thing. If by being bored you mean 'not doing something' and not being 'busy' because then it means one can start thinking by oneself. Something that seems to be severely lacking in our so modern and so constantly busy societies.

If you want to know what are my usual activities, beside welcoming boredom, I would say: read, write, paint, go out for a walk (that's amazing too, for the body as well as the mind), spend time with my spouse, making stuff with my hands.

[–] toomanypancakes@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

Usually either put on a record, take the dog for a walk, or diddle the skittle

[–] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I read an obscene amount of science fiction and play a lot of classic wow.

[–] partial_accumen@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

and play a lot of classic wow.

I'm wondering if you can tell me where I can find Mankrik's wife.

[–] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I've never played horde, but she's at 49, 50. I can give you a straight answer since I haven't had to deal with horde barrens chat.

[–] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 6 points 2 weeks ago

I used to eat out of boredom, and I gained a lot of weight. Then I took up the guitar during Covid. Now when I get bored, and tempted to eat something, I pick up the guitar and start playing. Soon I forget that I was bored, and forget about eating. I've lost 85 pounds, and I'm still losing.

[–] kratoz29@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 weeks ago

Customize Android root stuff, watch anime, play videogames, that has been my life as of lately.

[–] quediuspayu@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Embrace boredom, that's where the best ideas come from.

[–] Fondots@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

Read, watch TV/movies/YouTube, play video games, take the dog for a walk, work on one of my many hobbies that I've been neglecting, see if any of my friends wants to do something, take a nap, listen to music,

And if I get really bored, there's probably something I'm supposed to be cleaning or some other chore that needs attention

[–] shartworx@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago

Put things into other things. Take things out of other things. Push stuff. Sleep. Look at stuff.

[–] hexagonwin@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 2 weeks ago

scroll lemmy/bsky/hn, watch anime

[–] Zombiepirate@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

Play music, read a book, draw something, play a game, or watch a movie.

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I'm doing one right now, and you're reading it. Other times I write scenarios for my D&D campaign, do 3d printing, and wiring/coding for IoT devices. Also making cookies. Also eating the cookies.

Can’t say that happens frequently enough for me to have a set thing to do.

The list of things that need to get done never seems to get shorter. So I’m usually working though my todo list. Recreation time has to be scheduled sadly.

[–] sparcipx@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 weeks ago

I don’t have a lot of time for the boredom I so desperately deserve, but in my rare instances of free time I often think of immanetizing the Eschaton.

[–] Surenho@lemmy.wtf 3 points 2 weeks ago

Play the guitar or harmonica, design a boardgame or a ttrpg, play videogames, check lemmy/youtube/nebula, be in my head. But I'm seldom bored, more like "if I have free time for some minutes".

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 3 points 2 weeks ago

Take a walk/with a fur baby, play with/pet a fur baby, clean (always something), nap, video, read, scroll, meditate/pray, talk to a neighbor.

[–] scytale@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 weeks ago

Watch a movie, listen to music while browsing lemmy, or take a nap. If there’s something that needs to be done like repairs or chore, I do that too.

[–] kubok@fedia.io 3 points 2 weeks ago

I wish that I had the luxury to be bored.

Mostly make stuff. With lego, 3D printing, video editing, line rider, beat saber, html and css, Krita, writing, and whatever else I need for a project. I also like playing board games and video games like celeste, tetris, and blue prince.

[–] Crankenstein@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Nap

Disassociate to music.

Jork it.

[–] BossDj@lemm.ee 2 points 2 weeks ago

Text around see who else is home and bored. Time to not be at home.

If that fails, scroll scroll scroll then maybe some gaming (marvel rivals and death stranding right now)

[–] Green_Mouse@piefed.social 2 points 2 weeks ago

Sometimes I lie down and listen to music or a long video, sometimes I play with my dog, sometimes I just rest, or play some games from my backlog.

[–] whotookkarl@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Time for leisure is great. Read a book, play an instrument, daydream, learn something new, challenge your beliefs about whether certain institutions are beneficial or not, take a walk, ask someone in a position of authority subversive questions, fly a kite, take a nap.

https://harpers.org/archive/1932/10/in-praise-of-idleness/

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 2 points 2 weeks ago

Recently I've been solving mystery geocaches (puzzles so you find the coordinates for the cache)