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Supportive dad (lemy.lol)
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[-] GhiLA@sh.itjust.works 4 points 23 hours ago

he saw that I was serious

"Oh fuck, you're serious, just look at it!"

[-] Draegur@lemm.ee 13 points 1 day ago

Sis was basically built with a clit to begin with, will barely need any aftermarket mods to match female spec.

[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 81 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Did the dad never change any diapers?

Micropenis is almost always evident from birth. Always afaik, but I'm leaving room for edge cases I've never heard of.

So you'd have to be a pretty hands off dad not to see it, even if it somehow wasn't noticed or reported to the parents by the doctors involved.

Edit: also, obviously fake and gay, forgot where I was for a second and was pretending it was real for discussion/entertainment sake.

[-] Default_Defect@midwest.social 61 points 2 days ago

I can't imagine most first time parents innately know what a baby's penis is supposed to look like, is it really that obvious?

[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 17 points 2 days ago

Yeah, it's pretty obvious.

It tends to happen the most with other atypicalities, but even when it doesn't, it just doesn't look right. Humans have certain proportions, ratios, and we can usually tell when someone is off by a fairly small margin. Genitals are no different in that regard.

You might not immediately think "micropenis", but you'd be able to tell things weren't normative.

Now, it might be pretty easy to shove that aside and assume it would grow later on, and they do. They just don't grow to normative proportions, they stay micro, just not the same size as they start.

[-] somethingsnappy@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

Just another anecdote, but I have 2 boys. I can't tell if one has a micropenis and the other has a macropenis. One looks smaller than proportional, but not "micro?" One looks, well, otherwise. They are both huge kids otherwise.. Maybe they are both near other sides of average, but I'm not spending time trying to figure that out.

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[-] IMongoose@lemmy.world 19 points 2 days ago

I don't think it was that uncommon for a boomer dad to never change a diaper. One of my friends dad was bragging about it and my own dad was a little surprised to see me change one. Luxury of a single income supporting a middle class family of 4 I guess.

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[-] BastingChemina@slrpnk.net 10 points 2 days ago

A study from the 80s showed that around 45% of fathers NEVER changed a diaper.

Things changed today but I would not be surprised if the dad never changed a diaper.

[-] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago

39 year old dad here. Being proud of not changing diapers was my dad's generation for sure. I've certainly changed plenty, and I can't think of any peers who haven't.

[-] naeap@sopuli.xyz 19 points 2 days ago

I'm 40 and would have no idea how big penis of a toddler should be - and with all growth hormone stuff happening, I wouldn't feel comfortable at judging at this age (besides that it is mostly irrelevant in long term relationships)

Also, my personal penis, so to speak, can be very minor, but as a grower I needed to step up my confidence, when being naked - but of curse instead of an actual micro penis, mine seems to be just shy and needs some encouraging words or kisses.
So maybe I can't relate.

Still I think this idea is idiotic

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[-] june@lemmy.dbzer0.com 72 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

A big reason that drove me was that I have a micropenis.

Fake. There are no "reasons to drive someone" other than their internal gender, this sounds like something ~~a cis person~~ someone who thinks being trans is a choice would say.

Edit: For clarity, I'm not speculating on whether or not the OP in the post is trans or cis, I'm saying it doesn't sound like a real story because it sounds inauthentic to the trans experience. A trans person could easily think this up, like anyone can make up a story that is close to their experiences, but since it isn't real it doesn't really pass scrutiny.

[-] match@pawb.social 19 points 2 days ago

two of my trans women friends, when getting their sperm frozen before starting hormones, found out they just have XX chromosomes and never had working sperm in the first place

i think we underestimate how many intersex people there are

[-] june@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yup. My belief is that we are likely to eventually combine the categories of transgender and differences in sexual development (formerly known as intersex) as we discover more about it's biological origins. The vast majority of people have never been karyotyped and have no idea what their chromosomes are.

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[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago

Idk 4chan has a notoriously toxic and strange trans community. Giving “reasons” is exactly the sort of thing I’d expect of them

[-] june@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 days ago

That's a good point. I haven't browsed 4chan since way before they had any LGBT community/rep visible on it, I don't know what kind of convoluted views they have. Let me guess, some of them unironcally identify as "agp" don't they?

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

There’s a whole lot of blanchardianism (agp vs hsts). Quite a bit of homophobia, it’s actually a lot straighter than you’d probably expect. A lot of how they act is surprisingly old school, like back in the day when you weren’t allowed to transition unless therapists thought you couldn’t live a normal life as your assigned sex old school. And all this with the characteristic 4chan edgy bs. Also they’re anti supportive, like full on terf forum level of critical of trans people’s appearance.

I haven’t been but I’ve learned to pick up the signs by seeing the shit trans people who come from 4chan say.

[-] june@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago

Good to know, thank you for the info. That's really sad.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

Yeah I think there’s just something about 4chan that encourages a sort of emotional automasochistic culture. I think it’s partly that the culture pushes away the healthy, but it also drives those capable of health away from it in favor of “uncomfortable truths”. I forget what Natalie Wynn called it, but it’s the philosophy of “it is true because it hurts”. And it happens all across the website. It’s the thing that ties the Nazis, the trolls, the incels, and the self hating trans people together, and it’s antithetical to happiness.

[-] Draegur@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago

Holy shit I never heard of it put into words but jesus fucking christ does that CLICK. I'm no longer there myself but there was certainly a time when I felt in a similar way:

The truth is painful,
Therefore the more that it hurts,
The more true it is.

This rhetorical position is insidious, deranged, toxic, and most importantly: blatantly incorrect and false. Holding this belief is a diagnostic flag of fundamental cognitive stack malfunction. Suspend all non-critical executive processes and seek therapy.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

So I just remembered the term she used was masochistic epistemology. It was in this video about incels.

But yeah it’s such an easy trap to fall into when you’re already unhappy. And yeah it’s a form of accepting defeat because trying is hard and the possibility of failure is scary. Sometimes the truth hurts, and if you’re generally miserable the truth you need is likely uncomfortable, but that discomfort could be anything from “you need to get your shit together” to “your expectations are unrealistic” to “you’re surrounding yourself with people and things that make you miserable because it’s easier to accept unhappiness than to change”

Incels for example think they need to accept that they’re just ugly and unable to ever be seen as attractive and thus are destined to be miserable forever, when in reality they often need to accept that getting laid won’t make them happy and their misery is part of why they can’t get laid. They need to find a happy life in which sex would be a nice plus and then be clean, groomed, and enjoyable to be around.

[-] 0laura@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

i have spent and still spend lots of time in these places and yes, they do. they desperately want to be hsts and hate themselves for being agp and not being trutrans enough. lots of reppers too (trans people that know they're trans but repress it out of self hatred). there's lots of lore

[-] june@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 days ago

That's really sad. It would also explain how she is relating her micropenis, via shame and self-hatred, to being trans.

[-] 0laura@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago

oh no that greentext is just a meme, she didn't call herself a gorillahon or talk about how she gets mogged by cissoids or how bonepilled she is.

[-] june@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 23 hours ago

Those are a lot of new words. I kind of want to ask, but I kind of don't want to know

[-] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 1 points 13 hours ago

I wish people would explain the acronyms.

AGP?

HSTS?

Trutrans?

I really wanted to get into 4chan, but unfortunately the slider captchca annoyed the fuck out of me.

[-] june@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 13 hours ago

AGP = autogynophilia: the idea that a person is a trans woman due to a sexual interest in having a vagina

HSTS = Homosexual Transexual: the idea that a person is a trans woman due to being a homosexual male, in other words that they are transitioning in order to have sex with straight men

Trutrans sounds like it just means "valid" as in they will claim a lot of trans women aren't trans women unless they are trutrans. Also, it may be those who insist that some are not actually trans because they say they don't experience gender dysphoria or because they don't want general surgery.

All of which are old, unsupported, and frankly regressive ideas.

[-] Ptsf@lemmy.world 63 points 2 days ago

That's such reddit logic. You assume everyone has a perfect understanding of themselves, but people have a lot of different things internally that drive them and they're not always aware of it. When I was young I was interested in other men, and frankly, quite disgusted by it. It's the habitat I was raised in and if you'd asked me back then, I'd have told you it was because I was a sinner. The real reason as I came to discover was indeed that I'm just gay. It took a lot of steps and discovery to get there. I'm not saying this is real, I'm just pointing out that just because your logic is correct does not mean that this person if they are real has made enough discoveries about themselves to be strictly logical.

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[-] somtwo@lemmy.world 25 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Wait, are you saying people would lie on 4chan???

But seriously, yeah, people don't seem to realize that people tend to want to pick the path of least resistance. If someone really is trans I have to believe it's because who they are is so at odds with the expectations of society.

Edit: added a qualification because I am not trans

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[-] Floey@lemm.ee 25 points 2 days ago

Your internal gender didn't just fall out of a coconut tree.

[-] DempstersBox@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Yeah, this seems like the 'joke' is that only guys with tiny dicks would want to transition.

Which has nothing to do with it

[-] GarbageShoot@hexbear.net 16 points 2 days ago

This very well may be fake, but it's also entirely possible to identify as trans for any number of reasons. You might say such a person is "not really" trans but, supposing that is true, there's no contradiction between that and some person who doesn't have such ideological convictions having a thought process like you see in this image and acting on it.

That said, I agree that it's probably fake, though I'm not as confident that the poster is a cis impersonator.

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[-] Interstellar_1@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)
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[-] cordlesslamp@lemmy.today 26 points 2 days ago

Has anyone noticed there's little to non micropenis pornography?

[-] RaoulDook@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago

I saw a penis size chart recently, it showed the overall avg size versus porn actor sizes.

Overall people's average size was around 5.5" and average porn actor size was about 7" and there were very few porn actors with less than 6"

So porn is generally skewing people's perception of size if that's what they see more than in-person dongs. (haha in person)

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 days ago

The median would be interesting. Just in case there's one guy out there stocking a 12 footer.

[-] TriflingToad@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

googled it, 12 inches is max but it's unusable. Guy refuses to make it useable because he wants to keep the record. Fair enough.

[-] kemsat@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I remember a podcast talking about the biggest being 13.”

[-] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

I would have to actually look for that.

So it’s kinda hard to notice what you aren’t looking for.

But you do you, no kink shaming.

[-] Entropywins@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago
[-] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 1 points 13 hours ago

I've been with one guy who had one. I'm more into kissing and oral soit didn't matter much. Definitely easier to suck on, it wasn't a job for me.

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[-] Mac@mander.xyz 44 points 2 days ago

Bummer. If only there was more to relationships than penetrative sex. :/

[-] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 29 points 2 days ago

Fake: OP is Trans

Gay: OP is very gay

[-] MataVatnik@lemmy.world 26 points 2 days ago

I have a thick 7" meat hammer I need a different excuse

[-] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 43 points 2 days ago

Dad I'm sorry I look too cute in skirts

[-] MataVatnik@lemmy.world 20 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Perf, "skirts are the only way I can let my massive dick breathe"

[-] Agent641@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Like that song by Cake, it goes "I like a girl with a short skirt and a long penis"

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