Hime

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[–] Hime@hexbear.net 1 points 17 minutes ago* (last edited 6 minutes ago)

Aaaaa nooooooooo

  1. You can't convert to being gay, sexuality is fluid sure but if someone finds relief in dating men they didn't successfully convert themselves, they were just a repressed queer person. That's legitimising conversion therapy but the opposite way round.

  2. No, nobody is happy to hear straight people are "converting themselves queer" if it's because of mental health and trauma. That's awful. I want all queer people to be happy, not forced by some self hatred.

  3. No gay men don't get it easier, it's just as difficult/easy for them, this is a wild bit of homophobia. They aren't more promiscuous or sex having. Just as many sit on the Internet being horny as straight men do and not getting laid like everyone else.

  4. We don't apologise for fascists here for getting radicised, we have nuanced conversations about how radicalisation happens i hope. Inceldom is classified as an extremist ideology. If people want to reform from it then they have to take ownership of themselves and their behaviours to some degree, not look for imo whataboutisms regarding an ideology that's lead to multiple mass shootings, murders, redacted etc of women.

Maybe I don't get what you mean but to me it seems like you underestimate how scary this ideology is to women given how damaging and harmful it can be. It's gone beyond sad boys getting ghosted and venting on the Internet.

Sorry maybe I'm speaking from my own trauma here but this stuff is so scary.

You might be happy to know, though, that one of the veins of discourse in the incel community is basically doing conversion therapy to become gay because they believe (I think correctly) that it's way easier on average for a dude to get laid if he's gay. I've never seen someone report that the converted themselves, though.

This paragraph i'm referencing, nope nope nope.

[–] Hime@hexbear.net 1 points 45 minutes ago

The world of dating is too dangerous for anyone not cis het male and white and who the hell would risk their safety and take a chance on someone who blatantly blames women for their woes when even the more "normal" ones can pop off.

It's just not worth it ever.

[–] Hime@hexbear.net 6 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (2 children)

I've known (emphasis on the known) a fare few guys who toe'd the incel line if not went all in.

All of them were cute, not one of them was physically undateable like that is even the most important thing (any guys reading its really 100% not). One was even like the hottest guy in our wider group.

All of them were fucking weird about women and blamed women for only liking dickhead guys and not nice guys like them.

It was 100% a them problem.

If they didn't have too high standards and rejected any girls who did look past their bs, they would go for people already taken and it's like WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!

[–] Hime@hexbear.net 3 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I'm guilty of saying "I have a bf" as a knee jerk reaction to random guys invading my space like inviting themselves to sit with me or something ngl.

But just as much I don't bring my bf up around guys who give off a particularly energy. I'm scared they'll lash out if they find out I'm "not theirs for the taking" and instead i just get away as quickly as I can. Every friend i have who dates men has a story like this.

Don't know how I feel about having to engage and teach feminism to the later group when I'm scared to even be honest around them and would rather just call them a fail son.

aubrey-cry-2

[–] Hime@hexbear.net 6 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Yeah Lauren Southern been one of destiny's flings catgirl-disgust it just makes my skin crawl

[–] Hime@hexbear.net 2 points 1 hour ago

I've definitely met more elitists in physics vs chemistry or biology but I'm also not smart so sans-shrug

[–] Hime@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago
[–] Hime@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

Dunning kruger dunning kruger dunning kruger

Bet her egos a big as my self loathing the cow.

[–] Hime@hexbear.net 1 points 3 hours ago

💀 I feel that pain, I just want to BE Jane and I dumped literally everything I'd saved up till then in game on her and her weapon which I got so honestly im like happy and set with the game lmao but like erghhhhhh.

I really want miyabi because she's such a weird little gremlin and having to stand on a box 😭😭😭 short girl solidarity queen 🥰 but my like "main" team is Jane/Qingyi/Burnice and it makes me feel so much better at the game than I probably am. With the Jane disorder assault crits during stun making big numbers pop up so i don't wanna swap anyone out for Miyabi erghhhhh.

[–] Hime@hexbear.net 2 points 3 hours ago
[–] Hime@hexbear.net 8 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

Foreskin check gunpoint

[–] Hime@hexbear.net 3 points 6 hours ago
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submitted 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) by Hime@hexbear.net to c/games@hexbear.net
 

I got Koleda instead tho so like I still got a Fire stun character for a mono team and she has explosive hammers so like that's grand but I wanted my thirst trap goofy pugulist biker man distress

I thought making a Hexbear account meant you guys would put a good word in for me with Xi and he'd like lean on hoyo or something to give me the pulls i wanted smh.

 

I really like this take, it kinda encapsulates exactly the sweaty cis het white metal heads that went to my school perfectly.

I really like the point he makes about hip hop and metal being a safe space for men to be vulnerable and let their emotions out.

 

🥰 🥰 🥰

His people surveys are so funny as well!!

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submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by Hime@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net
 

Does anyone have any cute/helpful routines for theirs T̶̮͔͔̯̏̉͂̄͘͝͝ơ̷̧̧̦͆̍̉́̍̇ ̸͔̱̦̦͖̩̣̰͒̓͂̐̂̕̚͝c̴̳̩͉̞̻͍͂́o̶̬̬̹̟͎̥͍̾͛̔̔͊̋́͜͝p̷̱̭̜͓͍̭͌̂̍̊̔̚͝ȩ̴̨̝̖͓͎͕̞́́̇̃͘͠ ̸̲̹̱͕̊͒̒͆̀͂͝ẉ̴͓͆i̷͚͉̳̞̳͊͛͐t̴̘̮̯͍̪̻̐h̴̤̔ ̷̧͔̱̲̹͕̺̈̅͋t̴̞̜̱̘͖̜̙͗͊͋͌͘h̶̦͉̰͓̼̺̮̅ͅę̸̬̠̠̥̤̰̬̚ ̶̠͕͕̺̈́̎̒̍͘͝͝d̴̯̬͉̖́̋͂ẻ̴̥̼̳̏̿͝s̸̢̜̅̄̒̄̕p̴̼͖̹̫̤̿â̷̲̖͈͒͂͐̓̇̚i̵͇̤͇̗̾͊͆̐̏͗͠r̴̖͕̠̔͑̑͋͝?

I have:

  • joint
  • youtube
  • back/side/hair tickles from bf
  • lavender incense
  • instant ramen for days
  • plush toys
  • green tea for days
  • hot water bottle sometimes
  • specifically blue slush (shaved ice for you psychopaths)

🎵 These are some of my favourite things 🎶

And then a hot bath or shower if the headaches happens. Oh and cover all the mirrors in the house.

But like mine have been so irregular the last couple of months and I don't bleed so it's so hard to know if I'm finally going insane or whoops just my period I'm fine 🙃

Erghhhhhhh last month I ate 4 times what I have in a day in the space of an hour distress

Ergghgggygygkfkwjdhwjdjwkdkwksnznsnz help meeeeee I'm meant to be losing weight asagiri

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submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by Hime@hexbear.net to c/games@hexbear.net
 

I'm not non-binary so I can't vouche for this as representation but I unironcally adore this character which is weird cos they're absolutely marvel gag line pilled and you'd think that would be annoying...

But it ain't!

They are genuinely just a fun and really likeable character and just hearing in game characters use they/them like it was second nature and not effort was so refreshing to experience.

I mean I say all this and I'm not enby so like enbies let me know if we rate Nimbus or not todd

They seem to grate on the main destiny fanbase on reddit-logo which i always consider praxis.

But I mean these people decide everyone they like is a cis lesbian with a few token bisexuals and gave trans people fucking oryx the wet bug lad from fundament as representation and not like any of the exos which feel a lot more adjacent to transness than a evil wet bug vegeta-pain erghhhh i hate.

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