ihaveibs

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[–] ihaveibs@hexbear.net 3 points 4 days ago

The children of those folks are all renting now. Just completely out of touch

[–] ihaveibs@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Doesn't help when liberals constantly resort to backing up their arguments with a single academic paper that they do not have the credentials to interpret. Just go look on r/science on stormfront.

Academic papers are not holy divinations of God's will representing a steadfast unequivocal truth. They are written in the context of their particular economic and social system that incontrovertibly influences their hypotheses, methods, samples, findings, interpretations, etc. I have read papers that twist themselves in knots to provide milquetoast answers that avoid reckoning with capitalism and poverty, especially in healthcare and public health. However, they go along the rails of liberal ideology so they are not sufficiently questioned.

I think even Marxists and other leftists could benefit from improved scientific literacy in that way. We could be much better equipped to talk about and fight against how the system reproduces and enforces itself through academia.

[–] ihaveibs@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

Fellas, is it revisionist to view the world through the lens of social and political relations?

[–] ihaveibs@hexbear.net 84 points 1 week ago (3 children)

The Dems are going to lose every single presidential election for however much longer they can exist for

[–] ihaveibs@hexbear.net 34 points 1 week ago (18 children)

I still don't understand the reaction to the Last Jedi. Otherwise sensible people have the most dogshit takes on it.

[–] ihaveibs@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago

I see blue MAGA shitheads STILL downplaying it like we are all a bunch of morons who can't possibly remember our own fucking bills going up by 50% under Biden. We all saw it. We all still feel it.

[–] ihaveibs@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

Like my parents agony-shivering

[–] ihaveibs@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago

So the people who were profiting off of the COVID wealth redistribution supported the Dems and those who were harmed supported Trump. Seems pretty straightforward

[–] ihaveibs@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I see it as a blow to American hegemony for sure, but nothing that fundamentally change anything at this point. Maybe more of a benchmark to look back on than anything else

[–] ihaveibs@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago

They convinced themselves by saying 'the economy is great, actually' and ignoring what voters were saying

[–] ihaveibs@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah people really don't like Trump. People just won't vote for you if you downplay their suffering, which is exactly what the Dems have been doing the whole time.

[–] ihaveibs@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

Can't believe I was successfully gaslit to think Kamala had a chance. Never again

 

So I am finally able to express insecurities about my body that I've held onto my whole life due to, you know, feeling like a singularly fucked up freak which unfortunately is a common experience for us autistics and neurodivergent folks. I've had some recent experiences that have me feeling pretty down about my body and I guess I want to write it down and get some validation from others that may share some of these experiences or have some guidance or information to understand myself better. Unfortunately, some of these "quirks" lead to some serious social avoidance behaviors and anxiety because I feel like I have no control over when my body seems to decide to just stop working properly. I just want to understand better why I, for example, can seemingly randomly lose my coordination and take an embarrassing tumble or knock over and break things; why I can overheat and start sweating profusely so easily; why my reflexes can be so reactive and I get jumpy or overreact, like having a gag reflex that can cause me to puke or spit up over nothing; why I can sometimes be very sensitive to pain or not feel it all; why I have IBS and other stomach issues that don't seem to correlate to any particular food or activity; why I have nerve pain in my legs and restless legs; why I can sometimes feel the constant urge to go to the bathroom or have embarrassing episodes of sexual dysfunction. I hope this post doesn't come across too much like a "woe is me" thing, just trying to understand myself better so I can stop feeling so insecure about something I can't control. How much of this is related to general executive dysfunction that is a hallmark of autism and ADHD? Does anyone else have similar experiences? Is it possible some of this is completely unrelated to neurodivergence? Do others also feel this way about their body?

 

I used to regularly get good sleep for a while pre-pandemic, but ever since then my sleep has become so dysregulated and I've basically become dependent on weed to fall asleep. It's gotten to the point where I get nerve pain and restless legs (that in itself contributes to insomnia) if I don't get high before bed, no idea if this is a shared experience with other NDers. On top of the fact that this makes weed less fun and it makes my tolerance out of control, I also don't like relying on a substance to fall asleep as it seems to just make it more difficult to try and go without the longer I continue this pattern. I am trying to refrain from using weed to fall asleep for the next short little while but the first night I'm unable to fall asleep at all. Anyone have any advice or experience with a similar situation or just for regulating sleep in general? I know sleep difficulties are part and parcel of the autistic, ADHD, ND experience generally. I can't function if I don't get good sleep and I'm desperate.

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