J'ai lu "Nos existences handies" de Zig Blanquer, un recueil de textes sur le validisme, les luttes autonomistes en France et ailleurs. On peut commander le livre, ou le retrouver en version numérique gratuite chez tahin party, où on trouve une partie des textes en version audio aussi (bientôt tous): https://tahin-party.org/nos-existences-handies.html
C'est un livre intéressant, dans lequel on peut apprendre plein de choses, et qui remet aussi les idées en place et pas seulement aux valides.
Are you a cis woman? I ask because you said you have a husband and you may want a kid. Italy is going against gay adoption, and I think it's not easier if you're a trans woman with a cis man, for example. You could try to have some information about abortion, because right to abort isn't the same thing to access to this right. It's not specific to Italy, and I think a lot of European countries are currently going the same way.
Edit: I mean, if you like the country, have family and really want to leave, I don't think it's a bad idea.