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I'm not sure if anyone cares about an update, but I wanna just vent a bit.

I got the email (as shown in the screenshot) on June 25 very late at night.

Welp, I filed a Chargeback immedialy upon reading that. Guess that's one store I can't go to anymore... 🤷‍♂️

Still have yet to hear back from the bank on their process, but they say they'll "temporarily credit the balance" while they "investigate".

If my Bank decides to screw with me, the next update is probably gonna be in "c/ActuallyInfuriating" (I hope everything goes through fine, fingers crossed)

I did some online searching, and found like a few different posts from Reddit with others saying they got the same "completed investigation... unable to provide refund or replacement" bullshit.

They didn't even give me a chance to send the video evidence. The rep on the phone said they would "contact me there are any updates or request further information", but didn't tell me where to send the video to. Nor did anyone contacted me to request it.

What I think happened with the so-called "investigation" is that, BestBuy just deferred it to Doordash, and they must've looked at the picture taken by the driver and just sided with their driver to protect their bottom line, and BestBuy just accepted that as an explanation.

Pictures are stationary lmfao. That proves nothing. Only that the package was at the door (which was actually a neighbor's door btw), not that the driver didn't just snatched it immediately after.

Tbh, I doubt things would change much even if they got the video, they don't take this seriously at all. They would've just said the video was blurry and deny refund.


Btw: I ended up ordering a different laptop from Amazon and they shipped with UPS and it arrived safely, with all security seals intact. I don't like how Amazon is taking over everything and have become monopolistic, but at least their stuff actually arrives...

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[–] pikmeir@lemmy.world 76 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I had a similar thing happen with Best Buy. I ordered a laptop which showed as "delivered" but never arrived. In fact I was at home the whole day they claimed it was delivered and nobody even came. Best Buy had no proof it was delivered other than a tracking number, and wouldn't send me a new one or refund me. The employee on the phone told me to just call the police and report it as stolen. I escalated it to a supervisor and asked them to listen to the original conversation, and explained that it's not my responsibility to get the laptop - it's their responsibility to ship it to me. I also at the same time disputed it with my credit card. The end result was someone at Best Buy calling me back and apologizing for the employee's mistake, and my credit card company saying they refunded my money, as well as telling me I could keep the laptop if it ever arrived later. So it ended up working out. I just had to escalate it and be the squeaky wheel.

[–] foggy@lemmy.world 38 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

Yeah this is what back charges are for, and the absolute beauty of credit.

Won't hear me say that much.

But you don't have to go through the nonsense if you use credit.

You tell them "hey I bought this and didn't get it I am disputing the charge."

And their legal team calls their legal team and says "we want receipts and proof or we will litigate and also we are a financial institution and you're best buy so be smart here."

Instant (well not really, but effortless) resolve almost every time you're in the right.

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 5 hours ago

I use my credit card for everything, and pay it off fully every month.

I had to do a chargeback once. Convert tickets bought in December 2019, concert obviously cancelled. Ticket site wouldn’t refund, they just kept saying “oh just wait until it’s rescheduled” when I E-mailed for a refund. I asked four times. I told them “even if it is rescheduled, I’m not going to a concert in a pandemic.”

I went to my credit card’s web site, clicked a button, wrote a sentence, and the charge was gone. Never heard about it again. It’s truly the way to go.

[–] dhork@lemmy.world 28 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Yes, the system works, but it kinds sucks that it's based on getting the biggest gorilla on your side, rather than which side is actually in the right.

[–] WolfLink@sh.itjust.works 4 points 5 hours ago

That’s kinda the way of the world in general unfortunately.